my partner is usually busy with work or other things, his only free the times i can't see him, we are still very much in love with each other and have been together for almost four years, but i can't help being mad at him for not having the time to see me, is it right for me to understand that his got other things to do, i mean i just want to spend time with him he thinks i don't understand his point. help
2006-06-24 09:16:10 · 5 answers · asked by cocoalush 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is 11.05pm.Im on my own doing this to pass the time.my partner is a bus driver.he clocks off at 12.08.then he has to walk back from the garage.he will be home at about 12.20am.I am lonely,but I couldnt be mad at him because he works hard for us.Then he will be gone early in the morning.Im guaranteed no nookie because he will be yawning when he comes in and knackered.I never complain,when you love someone you are supportive.It makes me so happy and glad to see him.That is what makes a relationship work.space.living in someones pocket is not healthy,plus you must have your own interests.they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.you have had 4 happy loved up years.it does work.Be more understanding,you have a good man.take care
2006-06-27 11:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well as a couple you should do things together, so why not join him in the things he likes to do or maybe ask him to join you in doing things. If it has been like this for four years, it would appear that being a couple isn't what you are both about. you seem to be going your different ways, just being in the same house same bed doesn't mean you are together. so the right to be mad? No not really you are as much to blame for this as he is, don't get mad try to fix it. talk helps.........
2006-06-24 16:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by realnutty01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sound really cruel my partner is a chef and i get really angry that i have to go out on my own i ask him to take time off but he never does we have been to together for two years so for him thats two years of nagging ha
2006-06-24 16:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by ihateoscar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u r his gf and u deserve his time as much as the other important things in his life!
if he arranges 2 meet u, come an see u, then he should, and u shouldn't let him away with it if and when he doesn't! good luck :)
2006-06-24 16:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by missilibi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't be mad at him
2006-06-24 16:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by shakira l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋