MY BEST FRIEN D AND I HAVE LIKED THE SAME PERSON IVE LIKED HIM SCINCE I WAS THREE AND SHE LIKED HIM SCINCE A FEW DAYS BEFORE THEY STARTED GOING OUT!!!WELL I TOLD HER I WOULDNT GO OUT WITH HIM SO SHE WOULDNT FEEL BAD AND SHE GOES OUT WITH HIM ANYWAY!!!!!!!!! DO YOU THINK THAT WAS WRONGE??? AND WHO WAS TO BLAME HIM OR HER!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-24 09:13:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i think you should blame both of them because he knew that was your bestfriend and she knew that you dated him so you should be mad.
2006-06-24 09:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was dirty, I must say. The right thing for both of you to do, was to just leave him alone. If she did not know about your feelings for him, then that is another story. He is not to blame, b/c a guy will be a guy. Do not blame anyone, but you have the right to be angry, b/c she calls herself your friend. Truthfully, that is not something a friend would do! Know the difference between, a friend and an associate, it will help you out in life!
2006-06-24 17:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by *FLIRTACIOUS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should ditch the guy. Guys last only a little while, when friends are FOREVER. if both of y'all like the same guy, well you both should know you can't have him, because that would mean making the other friend feel hurt. That's not right. Like i said, friends last a lifetime while a guy can last a couple of days. There will be other guys, no matter how much you like this guy. Tell her that.
2006-06-24 16:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by la. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is wroung b/c ovibliously if u said that u wouldn't go out with him to make her feel good then she shouldn't go out with him based on what u said. U would hav to blame her.
2006-06-24 17:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by soccerangel1204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes her and not you then let her have her chance. I hate how girls are so stupid about this. My best mate's ex is my current fiance. I liked him he liked her and me he went with her first, she didnt like him so much so gave him to me basically. Learn to be happy for your friend. If your true friends her happiness will bring you happiness
2006-06-24 18:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HER BECAUSE SHE KNEW U LIKED HIM,AND U TO PROMISED NOT TO LIKE HIM RIGHT?MAN SHE'S NO FRIEND,ONE OF THE BIGGEST RULES IS NEEVR DATE SOMEONE A FIREND LIKES BEFORE U!THAT'S SO WRONG!AND IF HE KNEW U LIKED HIM HES WORNG BUT IF NOT HE HAS NOHTING TO DO WITH THIS,GOOD LUCK TELL HER HOW SHE HURT U AND THE EBSTF RIEND RULE!AND IF SHE DOENS'T BREAK IT OFF STOP BEING FRIENDS WITH HER,
2006-06-24 16:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have been honest with your friend. Friends should never let a man get between them. Good luck.
2006-06-24 16:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a new friend almost as badly as you need punctuation an spelling checker.
2006-06-24 19:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by Betsy Jayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah she was wrong for going out with him. but on whos to blame depends did she talk him into it or did he talk her into it or what not
2006-06-24 16:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, neither one of you should have gone out with him if you both like him.
2006-06-24 17:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by pieceomind4me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋