2006-06-24 09:00:53 · 19 answers · asked by american_males69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well, 1.if shes out alot probably not. 2.if she kisses and hugs u alot yes. 3.if she has alot of ''guy friends'' most likely not. 4.if she says she goin out to town almost every day no. thats all i can think of.
2006-06-24 09:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
She communicates her needs and desires honestly. She doesn't have strings attached to things that should be done without question ie: a back massage, dinner, cleaning, washing the car. And if there are strings attached then you'd have your own.
With my husband, I will gladly do all the housework on the weekends and that includes all cooking if he cooks for me during the week and takes back all the empties. It's a relationship. It's not just love as it is unconditional acceptance of one another. This is my second husband. We've been together 11 years total and still act like it's the first week.
Why do you feel this way? Has something happened to make you feel insecure in your relationship? How long have you been married?
2006-06-24 16:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by jozlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes taking care of the house, kids, money problems, work, these are all struggles that take a big toll on your sanity. So maybe she seems like she doesn't care, like she's not paying attention, but that may stem from her trying so hard to keep things together for the both of you.
People demand so much from women, it used to be that it would be ok for them to stay at home only, but with cost of living, that is not always an option nowadays. Who said we wanted to be superheroes? Raising kids, maybe even going to school, wow, that is a whole lot to ask for. I know some people do it like it's no big thing, but If I wouldn't have to, I wouldn't complicate my life that way.
If you guys can afford it, take a romantic weekend, a few days to get away, maybe that will mean the world to her, and she cane be the women you fell in love with.
If she does all the house chores, takes care of the kids, and takes care of your needs, of course she loves you. I don't mean sex, I mean everything else, you can't demand sex from someone who is dead tired at the end of the day, everyday.
2006-06-24 16:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she do things for you such as cook, wash your clothes, and keep the house clean. Does she ever come up and give you a hug for no reason or just touch your hand. Does she sit near you when watching TV. Does she still sleep in the same bed as you. If you answered yes to any of these chances are she does love and care for you.
2006-06-24 16:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by lostinlove 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know if she loves you and you have to ask for advice something is wrong.I think it is time to set down with her and tell her how you feel.Maybe she doesn't realize you feel as if she is not showing you the love and attention you need.Without communication nothing can get better!!!
2006-06-24 16:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by jessica b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u kno she loves u when she wash ur clothes and cleans up after you makes u dinner, takes care of you when ur sick (and let's u be a baby about how nasty the medicine is) or when she sits and listens to ur dreams (when nobody else does) or when she lets u take all the money and invest in ur dream jus to have it blow up in ur face and all she says is "honey I love you".. when she sits by the phone and waits for ur call.. when she gets up and greets u at the door and ask how ur day was and after all that and much much much more she still finds the time to have sex with you!! U have a winner...
2006-06-24 18:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She finds time for you and shows you love and affection. Remember she also needs this. If you have kids be easy on her. They are a lot of work, well worth it, But can leave on quite tired day in and out. Make sure she sees that you appreciate her and I'm sure she'll make more time for you.
2006-06-24 16:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by tamtam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard question as there can be so many answers to that. But I would think that's a feeling YOU can only have. And if you were to look deep down inside you know the truth.
Good Luck
2006-06-24 16:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by Tammy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one would assume she does because she is your wife. If she married you she should love you but sometimes that is not always the case, i am sure the signs are there good or bad if you look for them
2006-06-24 16:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by tall_slimm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say talk to her, ask her if she still love you. Pay attention to her. Pay attention to her facial expressions, they are signals. More can be learned about ones true feelings in a facial expression, tone of voice. Trust your own instincts.
2006-06-24 16:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by debbie_joan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋