2 days ago i met this girl @ the park. i was playin basketball with my homeboyz and the whole time was pretty girl lookin at me. it was late at night like at 12:00 a.m and she was still there. so i went to talk to her and offer her if i could walk her home and so we did. as we were walkin we were talkin about ourselfs but the thing was i confessed thet i got locked up for gang bangin and possesion of ice,so she kissed me and told thats the past, but looked scared and looked shaken up. Ladies would u be scared if i told that confession? And wat should i do so ill still have a chance wit her?
2006-06-24 08:55:25 · 8 answers · asked by Edwin D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yep if you told me that when you first met me I would be scared,, but again she may appreciate your honesty up front.
It's anyone's guess whether she will see you again,, just wait it out and see.
2006-06-24 08:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being honest is the best way to go when you're meeting someone new. She looked scared and like she was shook up by your answers (you've surprised her), deep down she appreciated you telling it to her and that you had courage to say the truth outloud. Judging by how she reacted (telling you that it was in the past), she likes you for who you are on the inside without looking on the outside. Why would you think that you don't have a chance with her? You did and still do :) The next time you'll see her, ask her out and see where it'll go from there. I'm sure she'll be happy to spend time with you again. She was there waiting for you to come over to her, after all, which means that she is interested in you as much as you are interested in her. If she wasn't interested, she would have left way before you've finished playing the game... Do you have her phone number? Call her and ask her for lunch or just a walk in the park, she'll be more than happy to go out with you.
I'll personally be honored if you'd tell me the truth, that way I'll know who really are without any secrets, and that you wanted to be honest with me from the very beginning. I'd tell you: "Thank you for telling me and trusting me enough to let me know."
She was right, the past is the past and no one can do anything about it. However, what you can do is to continue on the right path being happy with your life, enjoying each other's company, and looking forward to the brighter future... but this time together.
2006-06-24 16:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by tiger_pisces7483 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you shouldn't have confessed that so soon; that's for later to grow a trusting relationship. But you said the truth so you aren't completely at fault. I would have run for the hills if you told me that so soon mainly because I don't even know you. Now you have to show her the better side of you or she's gone. She already did kiss you so you're not out yet.
2006-06-24 16:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by sweetti02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would be a little scared. But if you seemed like a nice guy I would forget it. I think you still have a chance with her though.
2006-06-24 15:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by marimbalover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most ladies probably wouldn't want to see you again. Then again, she kissed you after you told her so you might still have a chance with her.
2006-06-24 16:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by lenka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the girl really likes u she shouldn't care about your past. everyone makes a mistakes. u need to talk to her and ask her if she wants to be with u or not. if she tells u that she doesn't wanna be with u because of your past then just forget about her cause she's not worth it.
2006-06-24 16:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all learn to speak correctly, and then treat her with respect and learn to keep your pants on until you are married.
2006-06-24 15:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by Merrilly C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first id be scared then if i see u actin nice and sweet to me then that fear would go away just be real sweet and kind to her
2006-06-24 16:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋