Can We Judge a Man's Love Potential by the Way He Kisses?

Question

we have our own different views on this thing...what's yours, btw?

Answer 1

The secret of attraction is simple and goes way beyond Kissing:
We get in life precisely what we really think, feel and believe we deserve - no more and no less.



You may not have realized it until now, or may be you do not even believe that everything you experience in your life is invited, attracted and created by you. Right now you may be thinking “I disagree, I would never have invited such and such situation into my life”. And you are right to think so. We do not attract negative experiences into our lives on purpose. Most creations in our lives are by default.



Put simply, if you find yourself thinking about something you do NOT want, you will attract more of the same thoughts from other people; more conversation, more proof, more circumstances and more events that perpetuate this negative thought. Whatever you focus your intention on you attract.



In love as in life, you attract exactly what you really think, feel and believe you deserve—positively or negatively. The vibes (also called vibrations) that you put out at every moment whether negative or positive draw to yourself people and relationships of similar positives (acknowledged aspects of yourself) and negatives (disowned aspects of yourself). You may not be aware of it or even think you are trying to attract, but you ARE doing it all the time.



Often when we meet someone and we either like or dislike them even before they've opened their mouth to say anything, it is because we are picking up their vibrations. If the person is full of love, compassion, forgiveness, acceptance and all the other positive vibrations, and you are too, you will find yourself instantly liking the person. However if you are not vibrating at the frequency of love, compassion, forgiveness and acceptance you will find yourself trying to avoid any contact with that person. If on the other hand he or she is holding a lot of anger, bitterness, un-forgiveness and you aren't, you'll pick up his or her 'bad vibes' and will most likely feel uncomfortable around the person. But if you have the same kind of emotions inside of you, you will resonate.



So what can people looking for love do to attract it?

According to this ancient knowledge, we always attract consciously or unconsciously love relations with those individuals who share the same difficulties, imperfections and level of mental, emotional and spiritual development as our own at any given time. These people are the perfect mirror of the qualities and virtues most lacking in our consciousness. In most instances, and if we are willing to learn, they force us to face the truth about ourselves. Most of these truths can be painful and hard to accept and that is why most of us try very hard to avoid dealing with it.



For example, when you're looking for love, and you really, really NEED to find it - whether you admit it or not is irrelevant - the vibration you are actually sending out is that of FEAR which says "what if I can't find someone to love me?" Unconsciously you are sending a strong message to the Universe to send you whatever you fear. Because your unconscious programming says that you aren't deserving of a loving relationship, you are doing your dating from a place of insecurity, desperation and neediness. You will immediately jump headlong into a relationship with a man or woman you hardly know or you will rearrange your life around the person and find yourself doing more and more for the person to get the same amount of attention. In the end you are left feeling the urge to chase the person which in turn drives them even further away. Your needy behaviors, feelings and talk will keep you long in an unhealthy situation because you FEAR that you will never find someone else to love you.



In this case, the most powerful conscious decision you can make to attract love into your life is to let go of NEEDINESS and feeling of scarcity. Instead start believing that there is so much love out there and all of it is coming your way, and focus on bringing more love, abundance, appreciation or gratitude, into your life. By learning to trust that you will always have plenty of love you are not only automatically eliminating the fear that no one will love you but you are also allowing love to come to you - when you least expect it.



Another example is that if you are so focused on the past or too invested in the future you may meet a wonderful person with whom you are destined to share a short-term, mutually compatible, loving and fulfilling relationship rather than a life-long one, but you will likely miss out on the opportunity because you are too focused on past pain and loss or a future of "perfection". If you're in your head trying to control the flow of nature that's exactly what will happen. You will miss the signs of guidance that the universe provides you every NOW and then and more than likely not get the love that you want. If nothing else, accept and enjoy it for what it's meant to be, instead of allowing the fated ending to cause you unhappiness or miss out all together.



You can learn to tune yourself to the subtle messages the universe sends, messages that will guide you to what you truly want. By choosing to stay in the moment every day, and every hour if possible, moment-to- moment, even if only for a few minutes you will learn how to receive divine messages that bring peace to your body, clarity to your thoughts, balance to your emotions, and create a strong connection with your spirit source.



Learning the true "cause" of your experience or reality, and actually taking action to ALTER that reality in any way that you wish, hope and dream opens a door of infinite possibility

Answer 2

God, I hope so. I think I'm a good kisser and have been told so. I think my kisses in particular are a good indication of my love potential. I kiss the ones I love more passionately than the ones I don't. I hope the ones I kiss can pick up on this, I most certainly try to convey that message through my kisses.

Answer 3

I think so....but it always doesn't work that way. Some men who are great at slippin' some tongue are less likely to have a great love potential but on the other hand they are.....but why don't you give it a shot and see what u make of it.

Answer 4

Judge? Love?? Is it a thing to judge??? Men can be ardent lovers and poor kissers and vice versa. Love is giving without expecting anything in return. Men gave their lives to save their beloved wives when the Titanic was sinking.

Love comes to the forefront when there is a tragedy or a catastrophe. You will never know the true worth of love in normal times.

If you are not convinced ask a widow or a widower.

Answer 5

i think its not a good basis at all because some men are just good at it. and that's it! love is something deeper. you know when the right man comes, and you don;t usually measure it by how good he kisses. i think its more on feelings. if a man loves you he will show it in his own little way. he will not do anything to hurt you. this is just my thoughts. i hope it help,

Answer 6

I couldn't. My husband gave lingering, sweet kisses that turned my knees to jelly and made me disoriented when we were dating and as soon as we returned from the honeymoon shied away from kissing at all. Now if he is willing to kiss I am too nervous and wondering if he is doing it to appease me or if I do it wrong and that is why he doesn't want to so while I still crave the kisses, I don't really want them.

Answer 7

Ya gotta be kidding me! Kissing is a talent and/or a learned skill. It has NOTHING to do with how they will love you, treat you, or how they are as a person. If you like everything about him, TEACH him how you like to be kissed! Or atleast let him keep practicing until he finds out for you (if you already don't really know how you like to be kissed).

Answer 8

Yes we can. Pheromones TELL us so many things. those little biological boogers tell us how a guy smells and tastes. How he kisses is immaterial but how a guy tastes...the gooey saliva stuff is addictive or it isnt.

If a man kisses or tastes bad to you...it means he doesnt have the opposite of your immunity system. Your body/taste is telling you that he would not be a good match for having babies with. Its science! he may look good, speak well but if the mouth/smell thing isnt working well...you could be doing your brother.

Answer 9

No, you judge a man by the good deeds he does & the way he treats & respects you, but kissing does help, at least a little.

Answer 10

love is a very visible expression,its the manifestation of ones feelings .if u cut urself u can do nothing but bleed,in the same way if u love u always show it in the way u feel it,so one can judge a mans love potential by the way he kisses as the lips always speak of our inner desires

Answer 11

No I don't ,a man will kiss a woman he really "wants" different than some woman he knows he can "have"