Woman, you know this man that you been going out with for a while. You love him more than anybody or thing in the world. You find out that he can't produce sperm though. So you still can have sex but just won't be able to have any kids with him. Would you still marry a guy even though you know the two of you won't be able to have kids? The only way to have kids is by adopting.
2006-06-24 08:39:57 · 19 answers · asked by jacoboctober11 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
No one but you can answer that question for you.
2006-06-24 08:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by ccccccc 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Adoption would not be your only option for having a child. There's also invitro-fertilization. (sp?) Of course I'd marry him if that was the only foreseeable drawback. The problem of how to go about creating your new family is much simpler to tackle than many of the problems other couples face. If you work as a team and want children to raise and love, once you've got them, you'll never think twice about how they got there! GOOD LUCK
2006-06-24 09:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by susaidan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-24 22:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by emily_rose_4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not, the most important thing is that you love him and he love you... even though is kinda sad for not having a baby our self. But i believe adopting is not a bad choice either, as long as you love the child like how you will love your flesh and blood. But that is what i think, the choice is yours, follow your heart.
If he really love you, i believe he will still accept you if you are in his shoe
2006-06-24 08:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love each other enough it shouldn't make any difference to your relationship. There are lots of options for childless couples to consider if they decide they want children but the most important thing is that you have each other and are honest about your feelings on the matter from the start.
2006-06-24 08:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you truly love someone, that should be the least of your worries. If the woman can't deal with it she can always move on to someone else & you're better off.....you'll then be able to find someone who'll love you for you.
2006-06-24 10:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I would still marry him. We could adopt and/or use artificial insemination with another man's sperm.
2006-06-24 09:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is so hard to find, and there are so many needy children out there already, this hardly seems like a dilemma.
2006-06-24 08:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by BUBBA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can't have kids but there is much love between the 2 of you then i would say go ahead and marry him and your love will cross you across the bridge. good luck.
2006-06-24 08:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by supergirl331117 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would if I truly loved him, because there are other options to having children, but if you let him go you might not find another one like him.(someone you love).
2006-06-24 18:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by Lela34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wold marry a woman like that if i loved her enough.i would adopt some kids.
2006-06-24 08:46:10 · answer #11 · answered by lcayote 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋