whithdrew i want her back but her freind is in the way what can i do
2006-06-24 08:20:55 · 18 answers · asked by MARK W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move on. If she left you once for another man then she'll only do it again. Cut your losses. I know you love her and it's tough, but if you're bitten by a snake once you should realise it will happen again, and even more easily since you've already shown her that she can walk away and you'll open the door for her. If anything, her friend is doing you a favour.
2006-06-24 08:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by Keith 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Run. Do not get back on this horse. You split up for a reason and you only want her back because it is in our nature to remember people that were special to us in a positive light while conveniently forgetting all of the things that didn't work. Even though you will be happy if you get back together, it will be short lived because the problems that made you split in the first place will still be there. You probably aren't going to listen to this, so I'm just going to say "I told you so," now.
2006-06-24 15:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up and invite her out to a movie or do something fun. Nothing like good honest communication. Tell her how you feel, don't push. If she feels the same then perhaps you both can sovle whatever cause the split. If she's not willing to go out with you just yet, send her a nice card telling her how you feel. At least you know you tried....
2006-06-24 15:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by aquarian53 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to be with you, she will look for you. She seems a bit confused, so if I were you I'd be careful. She might end up hurting your feelings, if you stick around. Just stay on a friendly basis, so you know where you stand. If you're too attached now, I suggest you have your own space to figure out your feelings.
Good luck.
2006-06-24 15:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a reason they call it a BREAKup,its broken...thus, you can either tell her how you feel and hope for the best (she might still have feelings for you) or play it safe and let it go...which is the better choice nine out of ten times.(oh yeah,and dont even TRY get past the friend, coz she most likely thinks she is protecting her friend from getting hurt again)
2006-06-24 15:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by Amon143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there was some of your question missing, but the best thing to do is openly let her know how you feel, afterwards the ball will be in her court, if she truely wants you back then she will have to find time for you and her friend or just let her friend go alltogether depending on the actual seriousness of her feelings for you and her willingness to make it work out....
2006-06-24 15:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there as a friend. if it was meant to be she will come back to you. it almost sound like she is just testing the water with other guys. give her time to find herself and hopefully she will come back to you. even though you still love her dearly the thing might be to better for you to tell her that you are are over her. that might make her relize that she messed up and she might want to try to work at getting everything better with you.
2006-06-24 15:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by short.lil_momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The friends got a chance to remind her how bad you were.
Nothing personal but it makes sense, huh?
You've got to get her a remember the good bits.
Don't give up write her a letter telling her how you feel & hope she gives you another chance.
2006-06-24 15:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. Your ex is your ex for a reason. That just seems like uneeded trouble. Too many people involved. Stay clear.
2006-06-24 15:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Chef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get back together. On and off again relationship do not work. If you're going to break make it a clean break and never ever go back.
2006-06-24 15:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by easywintoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋