I have loved my wife for 13 years and then one day she just stopped loving me.
I do not know why she is this new person, but I do not like it.
I have 6 kids 2 with her and 2 step kids that I treat as my own I love all the kids and she has trend them agents me.
Why well I think that it was so that she could not feel as bad doing the things that she has been doing, but I do not know.
We have been a part for all most a year and the love has not changed I still love her and I know that I all was will, that's sad that I cant move on I want to get a Divorce from her but she will not I think that she is trying to go to court and tell the court that she knows not where I am.
So that I cant make her look bad, well I do not want to make her look bad I just want what is best for her and the kids.
I have not talk to my kids in almost a year and the only time that she calls or E-mails me is when she is fighting with one of the men that she is seeing or when she wants some money.
2006-06-24 07:57:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all you have to move on.I have been married twice and been in 3 other live in relationships,those averaged 4yrs.ea.So were legally common law marriages.I still love all 5.But when it is over it is over.I have been alone now for 16yrs.At the 1st of last month I decided it is time to try one more time.It is scary after that long,but maybe I can find the one to spend my last years with.
2006-06-24 08:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by asmikeocsit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow Love, you are in a pickle. First of all you have 2 kids with your wife, and two steps, where are the other 2 and how do they fit in? Your woman did not suddenly quit loving you. If she said she did she's lying. She had been going through the changes through time and possibly hiding them from you so that you didn't know she was planning to bail on the relationship. You will get over her in time, however it won't be soon nor will it be easy. 13 years is a long time to be with someone. You do not get over them in a week, month or year. I beg you to get counseling and a lawyer and get good custody/visitation with your children. I don't know where you live, but it is a must that you stay in your children's lives, even the step kids if possible. You may e-mail me if you need to chat. I am sorry you are in such obvious pain. I can't emphasize enough how important it is for you to protect yourself and your children and get the legal system involved now. Good luck Love. Nana
2006-06-24 15:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your children have a right to see you and are probably feeling rejected by you who gives a damn how she looks good or bad, she is being selfish and evil and not doing what is inher cjildrens best interest by keeping them away from you go get youtr butt down to the da's office, file for divorce or at least 50 /50 custody for your childrens sake, dont say you love them .love them you dont know what kinda losers she is bringing around them and what the hell she is saying bad about you,your relationship with her is not as important as the one you have with your childrenm they are your babies for the rest of your life and are gonna be the ones who take care of you onwe day when you are ill and show up at your funeral and give you grandbaibes that is unless they hate you for rejecting and abandoning them for years and years dopnt do it, make reparations with your relationships with them love them and love yourself and forget her
2006-06-24 15:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would take her to court for her kids. honestly! maybe she will wake up and see the coffee when her kids are gone and she will go back to a good being.
2006-06-24 15:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by kaycee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer and counseling, my friend
2006-06-24 15:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by statenislanddreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋