Would YOU please answer this!!?It's kind of long!!?

Question

I can't believe I am actually sitting here, writing about him after all this time but here it goes..No matter what I do, I can't get over my ex. It's been over a year and I still like him. I have dated other guys during this time but they never measure up to him. I think about him WHILE I am on a date!! It's killing me, I think about him 24/7!! It's so hard to explain. I caused the break-up to happen. It was a short relationship, so it's not like a habit or an addiction or anything. He wanted to stay and work things out or breakup and get back together next year while we were breaking up but I chose none and told him I just wanted to breakup, he agreed. He asked if we can stay friends and he'll call me everyday and we'll talk but I said no. He told me he understands, and respects it...Two weeks passed by, I ignore him, than I got this phone call from one of his friends, telling me he still likes me alot blah blah blah..I told him he would've told me that himself, if he really wanted to

So here I am after 1 1/2 years, still thinking about him and talking about him!! He is going out with someone that liked him while and way before we were together. What makes it harder to not think about him is that I see him at work 5 days a week. He still stares, he never stopped. He still looks, walk by where I am, talks about me..Seeing him and his girlfriend don't get me upset or jealous. I don't know why but it just doesn't. He does things like, kissing her while looking at me, or if I am talking to a guy he gets mad (from his facial expression), he told people he'll beat them up if anyone ever talks to me or touches me before we went out. He always watches when I talk to other guys etc..

My question is what should I do?

Answer 1

well you know his side, and without putting himself out there again to get crushed by you, he is trying to hint to you that he still loves you, but he doesn't understand you!

Answer 2

Sounds like true love, don't be afraid to CRAWL back after you pray about it first. A little of God's enlightenment is always good.

Answer 3

aww don't worry, it happens to the best of us. You just learn to move on naturaly, and if he can't even decide whether or not to break up then he's weak anyway! And he shouldn't have little messengers he should just tell you himself!!!

Answer 4

This is not a question, but whatever the reason for your breakup, it doesn't seem like it is that important to you now.

Answer 5

you should tell him how you feel it sounds like you two still love each other

Answer 6

GO SEE A THERAPIST