im 15 me and my boyfriend and been togheter since i was 13!! but, for the summer he's going away and not coming back till september. our annversity is in august. i dont no what to do. i dont wanna break up and i dont want to be apart from him for 3 months! and if we still are togheter how are we gonna deal with the fact that were not gonna be togheter for our annversity??
2006-06-24 07:00:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I think you should stay in touch with him through email and phone. Maybe you could celebrate your anniversary when he gets back- it will be just as meaningful. Plus, think of it this way- it's kind of like a test to see if your relationship could survive as adults (in the real world, people go away on business and for other reasons all the time.) And you'll have a lot to catch up on when he gets back!
2006-06-24 07:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you and him love each othere that much then there is no reason to break up call each other and also wirte letter but dont feel bad i am going though all most the same as you but wore listen to this i am 16 and so is my bf and he lfet last firday becuase he had to go to juvi camp for 6 months and our annversity is in the end of december and he wont be there so there is nothign we can do abotu that be celibirte it when he comes back and plus its worse for me becuase he is in like a jail we cant talk or write or se each other for 6 whole months and and the first months not even finish yet so please if you love him and he loves you please dont brake up yall seem like a good couple and since you are goign though the same thing i am going though i would like to chat with you so we can talk what your email i can help you and you can help me ok
2006-06-24 07:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk on the phone alot. Even write letters if you want! The time will go fast! And if you guys stay together, your probably gonna face a time where you have to be away from him even longer than that. Dealing with situations like this is one of the things that makes a relationship, a relationship.
2006-06-24 07:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's way too early in life to take a relationship so seriously. You are both still kids adn need to enjoy having lots of friends, and lots of free time to do whatever you want. I would break up in a very "undramatic" way but stay friends, and then maybe in several years you will both be old enough to make a serious desicion about staying together...good luck, and like i said...don;t spend these young years being TOO serious..
2006-06-24 07:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by chicwitpurpose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you won't be able to survive without him, then he isn't the guy for you. It will be hard...yes... but there are other things out there. Find out who you are in those weeks apart. Find a hobby, or do some stuff that you haven't had the chance or time to do. Keep yourself busy!
Write letters, email, and talk on the phone.... Absence really does make the heart grow fonder.
2006-06-24 07:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by Allana R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why throw away a good relationship ya'll have had for 3 years gurl?stay with him celebrate your anniversery when he comes back,lik go to the movies and or out to eat,and celebrate it before he leaves.And call each other on the exact day and send him a package with a gift,good luck
2006-06-24 08:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about maybe visiting for the day. Maybe your Mom or Dad can take you if it isn't to far. But if not celebrate when he comes home and just don't make a big deal about it. He can't help being away and he will appreciate the maturity about the matter.
2006-06-24 07:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by misty a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a joke?
sonds like u need to keep him in a cage. lol
what annivesity u r talking about? U R 15, u r too young for all this.
I would be surprise if u r still togethere after 2-3 yrs.
2006-06-24 07:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stay in touch with him in other ways, such as calling him on your anniversary and emailing him (cheaper) on the other days. You can also send snail mail and, if you have a fax machine, fax little fun cartoons or pictures to each other. Yahoo! Photomail will allow you to send him pictures of you and him together on your anniversary. And remember to send him an anniversary card and (if you have the money) flowers! When he gets home, you can also have an anniversary party.
2006-06-24 07:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by Bookgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you two can stay tru to eachother for that long, i could just keep in contact. if you for whatever reason cant last long then i guess break it off, but i think if youve been togeather for 2 years you can last the tree months. just call often and tell eachother about your days and miss you`s and love you's. you should be ok.
2006-06-24 07:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by SME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋