and I have seen the way his wife treats him! She didn't know that we had been together and she introduced me to him as her geekie husband and every chance she got she humilated him!! Help please!!!
2006-06-24 06:23:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I understand wht you are saying but do not forget that is a married man it doesnt matter if she treats him like an dirt worm or if she introduce him to people as her toilet tissue is him the one has to stand up to her not you................. if he feels so bad why is he there??? nobody in this day and age is obligated to stay in an unhappy relationship,what you do is study this relationship real close and find out why this man is still with this woman and why the hell would he be in another relationship if he cant even handle the one he still attached too. im sorry but nobody is holding a gun to his head asking him to stay with his wife. could it be that he is playing you for a fool??? sometimes this is the case not sometimes but most of the times...take your concentrations off her for once and put it on him. start asking him why is he still there??? demand a relationship of your own and see how he reacts wht excuses his going to come up with....and maybe you will find out that he is not stuck there he just want to be there....and you deserve better than that. good luck honey and im sorry if i dont feel to symapathetic towards the man i just smell poo-poo dont you?????? good luck.
2006-06-24 07:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The odds of this man leaving his wife are slim, no matter how "unhappy" he says he is. If he was truly unhappy and wanted to be single then he would be going through a divorce and/or already be divorced.
You need to leave this guy alone until he can get his act together. He is taken - he isn't on the market. Right now he is having his cake and eating it too. Most of the times in these situations the other woman is the one who gets hurt, because the man never leaves his wife.
2006-06-24 13:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation. A married man isn't likely to leave his wife. He has made vows to her and while he can be married and have another relationship on the side they will take it. All i can tell you is to enjoy your relationship while you are together. you never know how long it will last jsut make memories
2006-06-24 13:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by Eunice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well chances are he is not going to leave...like most men he wants his main course right at home and his dessert some where else...but keep in mind..once a cheater always a cheater and if he does leave what makes you think he will not cheat on you.
2006-06-24 13:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight now...........you're seeing a married man, that is living with his wife, and you go to gatherings with them. Then you want to know how you can make him yours? Why? So he can cheat on you, and have the other woman in your house, in your face? Shame on the both of you.......you two deserve each other......you're both losers! I am sorry to be so mean, but come on now, really! His wife deserves better than him, miserable loser that he is!
2006-06-24 13:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to get a divorce, step back and wait until it's done. If he's chosen not to divorce, step back and then further back. There is no room for a third person in a marriage.
He may not be bothered by her words. Let him decide his own future.
2006-06-24 13:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are nothing but a cheater and so is he. If you and him did got together and he dumped his wife, then after he got tired of you he'd do the same thing over again
2006-06-24 13:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was really that unhappy and didn't love her than he wouldn't stay with her. Your obviously just his toy, and besides your a cheater. How can you expect to have a relationship with this man? So you stop cheating if you get him, well he did it to her so who's to say that he wouldn't cheat on you too. Don't wait around for him and be his dog.
2006-06-24 15:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by ~Mother Of Angels~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay but that still doesnt make it right for u to see him he needs to try to work on his marriage he cant just throw it away cuz shes playfully teasing him. dont ruin a marriage that can be saved..if u truly care for him u'll wish him th ebest and let him try to work it out. maybe thats her weird way of showing affection to him..hey it happens..... back off until he has either had counselling or gotten divorced and the fact he wud have u around her sickens me.
2006-06-24 13:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so sad that you are so low morally that you could wreck a home. You are committing so many mortal sins by your behavior. Pray to God for strength to be a good Christian and leave this man and his wife alone. Marriage is forever. (and so is hell).
2006-06-24 13:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by oremus_fratres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋