why do you think people have so much problems with gays and lesbians?

Answer 1

I never did until they started changing school books in California to mandate that kindergartners learning about Tchaikovsky (for example) have to be taught he was gay. Kindergarten is too young for forcing sexuality discussions if the particular child hasn't yet formed the question.

Stay away from my kids.

California already edits out anything liberals don't consider PC from history books - like most of Teddy Roosevelt. If gays and lesbians are jumping on the book burning mentality, I'm going to be against them.

Actually, it is the mind control aspect that bothers me, not the gay and lesbian aspect.

Answer 2

I do not have a problem with gays and lesbians - but I do not believe they deserve privileges not given to the rest of us. If someone is murdered by a crazy man screaming obscenities, it is just a murder case. But, if a gay is murdered by somebody screaming "fag" that is a "Hate Crime" and is worse, and this crazy guy will get a greater punishment. Why would the gay person get greater consideration? I sometimes feel gay people are not fighting for equality, but for superiority.

Answer 3

their problems are not with the Gays and Lesbians
their problems are with their own heads

that is where all the sh*t that they are scared of is happening,in their imaginations

they may not even know any of these people they must be scared of them selves,

people who are very sure and comfortable with their sexuality .got no problems with what turns other people on

and all these people who say it is not normal .do not know what normal is

check out in nature all the same sex going on
at all levels from plants to animals ,insects ,even fish

nothing apparently is more normal and it is surprising that there is not a lot more going on with Humans ,
than there is already

Answer 4

I try my best not to judge anyone but myself, my beloved brother was gay, I say was because at 25 years of age he died from AIDS something he admitted on his death bed that he felt happened to him because of his choice to live the life style, I loved my brother as my brother, as a person and not as being gay. I'ved tried to understand are people born gay or is it a product of enviroment and experiences just for curiosity reasons not judgement. I believe there maybe a higher power, but I don't believe in religion, in saying that I try think in terms of logic and reasoning, and in my personal opinion logically and physically a man can never completely become a woman nor a woman completely become a man, if the purpose of man and woman wasn't to reproduced then we wouldn't physically be made the way we are on the inside, and do believe that I'm giving my personal opinion and not judgement of anyone, but expericing a few family members and friends who are gay I beleive that it is a Psychological issue, every person I know that was gay has talked about it's a feeling, my brother was teased and beat up for years for being to feminine he was the youngest and only boy, my cousin who is a lesbian was molested at a young age by a woman, I would like to ask anyone that is gay to think if it was anything that happened to them small as teasing, major as abuse if it's anyway possible that my have lead them to feel differently than there were born, because if you'll be honest it is more Psychological than Physical, I'm not trying to judge but understand.

Answer 5

Because they are a minority who too often try to force their lifestyle on the majority.

If I visit Israel, I do not go around bragging about the virtues of being a Christian. I go to my own church but respect their religion.

The gay community should respect the fact that the majority of people disagree with their lifestyle and are offended by its display. But they insist on flaunting it when they know it's offensive.

If they kept it private, they would have much less trouble.

Answer 6

People have problems because they are ignorant. They are afraid to see outside of their own boxes, thus causing them to be afraid. It also helps them feel better about themselves. If they hate someone, it can help them to make them feel better about themselves. It's easier to look down on someone and it makes you believe that you're a better person...but its really not. I mean, let's be real here. Just because someone is gay or lesbian doesn't mean they are going to hit on you. Does every straight person hit on you? No. People just need to be ignorant and find reasons to hate people.

Answer 7

Anything that is different and unknown makes people uncomfortable. In the USA, any deviation from the sexual norm (heterosexual, male/female, sans premarital sex, sans fetish/S&M) is considered weird and unnatural. Also, many religious people feel that homosexuality is against what their god would want and therefore, they feel that homosexuals are "fallen people" or sinners.
I personally have no qualms with homosexuals and I believe they should be given equal rights as heterosexual couples ... but I don't pass legislature :-P

EDIT:
And for those of you who don't think homosexuality is natural: there are tons of other animal species that engage in homosexual behavior such as apes and lizards.

Answer 8

Because people love to hate anyone who is different from themselves.

I personally think that anyone who finds happiness with another person should be rejoiced. Our world is filled with hatred, and we need to celebrate when two people get together in a loving, consenting relationship. You may not like it, or understand it, but it's none of your business. No one is asking that you have gay sex, just that you accept that others do, and let them be.

Answer 9

Gays and lesbians are not the problem, it's the person themself having a problem facing their own problem.

Answer 10

There is always an issue/problem when majority of the world/regional population don't accept it. Like there is lot of problem with Love marriages/dating in India societies - it is so normal elsewhere.