How to pleasure women.?

Question

What is the best way to give my girlfriend an orgasm?

Answer 1

In my opinion -- and you are just going to have to learn to trust me on this -- there is no one best position. No matter how many times I say, "Every person is different and likes different things," people still say, "That's all well and good, but what's the best way to get a woman off." I swear to you on a stack of Good Vibrations catalogues that I am not withholding information from you. There is no one best way that will work for every woman. And the fact is, there is way more to getting a woman to orgasm than just position.

Look at it this way, Person A likes good old traditional pizza with sausage, green peppers and mushrooms. Person B prefers artichoke hearts, feta cheese and shitake mushrooms. There is nothing inherently wrong with either of these choices -- both are legitimate and distinct ways of approaching the pizza situation (although we all know person B is just a little bit more of freak than person A) -- they've just developed different preferences. Both would probably be content with plain old pepperoni pizza. After all who's going to turn down pizza? But if you really want to truly satisfy either one you would have to give each one exactly what they like. It's the same with sex. For the most part, sex is good, but sex the way you like it is even better.

Having said that, in general, here's how to bring a woman to orgasm:

Make her feel good about herself. I've said it before and I'll say it again, if you help a person build up their sexual self-confidence, they can't help but respond to you in a positive way. Make her feel attractive and sexy, and be sincere and honest about it.
Set a mood. This of course depends on what you're going for. Romantic, slightly freaky, nice and relaxing. You will of course vary music, lighting, meals and time of day by the particular flavor of sex you're going for. The thing that remains constant is making the other person feel relaxed and having fun.
Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. Foreplay actually starts in step one. It doesn't matter if you perfect every position in the Kama Sutra -- you won't get anywhere near the big O until you master the fine art of foreplay. People gloss over the entire make-out experience which is truly a crime. The trick to foreplay is to figure out your partner's fun spots and give them the attention they crave.
Clitoral stimulation. If you don't know where the clitoris is, you'd better find it. You can usually tell if you've got your finger on it by sudden squealing and squirming. You can also ask. Most women need to have direct clitoral stimulation to experience orgasm. Experiment with different positions to find ones that maximize contact with the clitoris. This can include positions that give your fingers access during penetration.
Clitoral stimulation is very important but don't forget the rest of the body including the brain. Your partner may like positions that give her hands and mouth access to your body -- or your hands and mouth access to hers. Sometimes it's not so much position as location. She might get a thrill from having sex in semi-public locations. There's also thrills to be had from locations and positions that are thought of as naughty or whatever little sexual quirks your partner may have. You're only limited by your imagination and possibly gravity. Also, the possibility of arrest for lewd behavior. Other than that, the sky's the limit!
The one thing that will make all of this work is the ability to communicate with your partner. To talk about what you like and what she likes and to respond in a positive way. If you can master this maneuver, there's very little any of the manuals or sexperts have to teach you.

Alexis Williams has a Masters Degree in Public Health from Emory University. Her specialty is health education. She's also pretty cute and if we had a picture of her up here you would pine for her like you had never pined for anyone before. What we're saying is that she's qualified to write this column and that you can trust her advice because she's not just some chump we pulled off the street.

Answer 2

Let her ride you on top and let her move anyway she wants, the only thing here is YOU HAVE TO WAIT!!! until she cums. Tell her to be on top and do whatever she wants, you can grab on her breasts to make it even better.

Answer 3

when you are having sex have her get ontop and lean back and go a little fast she will have multi orgasms

Answer 4

Apply laugh-therapy and love-therapy.

Answer 5

play with her for a while, suck on her titties, go down on her, go slow then fast

Answer 6

go dowN ON HER...dat alwayz turn a gurl oN!!

Answer 7

treat her like a princess...

Answer 8

let her do it herself

Answer 9

oral