Im sick of it...?

Question

Im sick of it... ok so teenage girls post questions aobut their sex lives, and we get answers about how we need to wait will were in love and were married. Thats YOUR opinion, dont lecture us about having sex too early, thats OUR choice. We go through all the sex ed and we know the consequences of our actions, so please give us advice about our situation!! dont lecture us on how young we are. Does any one else agree with me?

Answer 1

i totally agree with u!!!! when gurls ask about something sexual, they want an answer. ppl shouldn't respond to the question unless they have an answer. the person asking knos the consequences of sex and sometimes it's not even about sex, it's about something with themselves. they just want an answer and if ppl aren't going to give it to them, they're only answering the question for points.

P.S. thank u for saying something about it!!!! i was getting sick of it too!!!!

Answer 2

I'm 14 and though I don't think anyone needs to be lectured, I think that telling someone to think about the consequences of what they're doing is just fine. Deciding to have sex IS a big thing and thinking about it a little bit more can never hurt. I've never heard of anyone regretting that they waited to have sex, but people do regret having sex when they were too young. But the right age is differnt for everyone, for some people young, some old, for some it's marriage,and I don't think that anyone else gets to make that decision for you. I think making the decision is part of reaching the time when you are mature enough to have sex. No matter how careful you are something can still go wrong. Pills don't protect against STDs, condoms break, and abortion, adoption, and parenthood at a young age are all huge emotionally. So whenever you ask about sex people are going to worry about you and the child that you just might concieve, so don't get pissed.

Answer 3

Well, people give that "opinion" because most are speaking from personal experience. There's a lot of responsibility and knowledge that is required when having sex, and when you're young, mentally, physically, and emotionally you're not ready.

You can't get insulted, many of us were once that young immature person, who has come to learn a lot. There's stds, pregnancy, and there is the emotional aspect of getting hurt that runs deep and can last.

Many girls who start having sex at 15 to find when they are 25 that they've slept with five to ten people...some thinking it was love each time. And they come to realize it wasn't worth rushing into sex and they come to regret their decision. Sex during high school and in your 20's can be a different experience...due to being older.

You need to understand, the older you get the more life experience and knowledge you have that you are able to share...the same could be said of you trying to give advice to a eight year old, on school, bullies, or peer pressure.

Don't get insulted when people are looking out for you. Either you can take heed or learn the hard way. There's nothing wrong with taking good advice, in fact it's quite smart.

Answer 4

I think people deserve a straight answer to the question asked not others moral beliefs or preaching. If a young woman asks about birth control the only answer needed is what types, where to obtain them etc. Besides their is no certain age for falling in love as far a marriage these days many couples just live together and many people NEVER marry.

Answer 5

If you don't want our opinions, don't ask for our advice here online. Not everyone gets adequate Sex Ed in school, obviously. Have you read some of these questions??

Many, if not most of us, have already suffered from the poor choices we made as teens and are just trying to help save someone else from suffering the same fate. It may be futile, but it is done out of genuine concern for you and your future, not some vague sense of what is "moral".

See it for what it is, a concerned stranger's opinion, and do what you will with it.

Answer 6

Your right but dont get so offensive. These people, being older than you and experienced, are trying to help you and I think the smartest decision would be to follow the advice if you keep getting the SAME advice from so many people. Obviously they know what they're talking about. But your right is IS your choice. Just make sure you use your brain.

Answer 7

Ive noticed people do that,but I feel just make sure there safe and doing it if they really want to and it what both they and there partner want it,but if there like 12 and 13 they need to wait!they don't know nothing about sex but if your 16 and older you've saw the comercials and stuff so it's up to the person if they do it,and when people say to wait it just pushes them to rebel and do it!not everyone belives in waiting,I myself do but my boyfriend doesn't and neither does my bff,i'm just trying to talk them into waiting for the right perosn that's all

Answer 8

to a point i agree. but people are telling you not to cause teen pregnancy is begining to be such a huge issue now. obviously no one can stop you. but at least use some maximum protection is all i say. it sucks to be young and have a child cause the child ends up being raised mostly by a grandparent or lives a crazy bad childhood.

Answer 9

Go ahead as long as YOU are able to support any babies without getting on welfare and making the rest of the world pay for your mistakes.

By reading some of your other questions, it doesn't seem like you are to responsible. Unprotected sex and MIP charge. Hum-maybe you need to grow up before you start screwing around.

Answer 10

You are young and that is the reason you are dumb.... Dont ask stupid questions and then get all pissed about the answers... If you where really smart then you would be on here with problems wanting advice on.. So grow up

Answer 11

Having sex is your choice. It's not about age it's about self presevation. protect yourself, you are number one. Everyone has sex. Never be ashamed of yourself and never look back at what could have been. Move forward with your life, never regret. Just remember you are number one, protect your future.