My husband is very sexy...He's Mexican and just hot. He always has gay men 'flirting' with him. Could they 'see' something that I don't? Why do gay men 'think' they can 'have' any straight man? Any advice or insight? Thanks!!!
2006-06-24 05:33:37 · 31 answers · asked by nici a 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sigh...
This is my take...
If he is married to you and is having sex with you he is not gay.
I would think that would be quite clear.
There is a possibility he could be bi... however, he married YOU.
There is a VERY good posibility he is neither gay nor bi.
It is possible that being as sexy as he is, people of both genders are attracted to him. Do you think it would be more "straight" of him if he threatened to kick a ******* *** every time somebody flirted with him?
Flirting doesn't mean they "think they can 'have'" him. It just means they are flirting. Have you had sex with every person you flirted with? I should hope not.
I think the problem with your relationship has little to nothing to do with your husbands sexual orientation. I think your own insecurity coupled with your husbands sexiness makes you not trust him. If you do not trust him you shouldn't have married him. If you continue to not trust him, he will eventually leave you.
I think you may have been happier with a less attractive husband.
The fact that you are online asking thousands of strangers very personal questions about the man you are married to leads me to believe you didn't know him as well as you should have prior to marrying him. I would think you would have at least known him long enough to have determined his sexual orientation. If not, you had no business getting married.
PS One of the reasons many gay men "think" they can "have" any straight man is because we know that almost all men will have at least one gay sexual encounter in their lifetimes... sometimes we get lucky and are in the right place at the right time to get to be there for that "one time."
2006-06-24 10:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by Dustin Lochart 6 · 7⤊ 2⤋
My EX husband is gay. i'd easily divorce this guy - he has more advantageous than in all probability been having affairs behind your decrease back with men. provided that my divorce I easily have got here upon out that my ex had assorted affairs with men at the same time as we were married even besides the undeniable fact that i did not have a clue it become happening. it is a very undesirable difficulty that you're in and that i think for you because I easily were there. Get out - there is not any thanks to salvage this courting except you're keen to provide up something else of your existence and your happiness for him. You should stumble on a guy to love you want you need to be loved. I easily have and it wasn't till I met my husband that i realized only how undesirable and unloving my first (gay) husband become. i'd be praying for you.
2016-11-15 05:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, all these gay males are actually seeing something you aren't: delusions. Not all gay men think we can get any straight man: if they do, then they are proving that all they need is to find the right woman to make them straight. So, next time one of them buzzes near your hubby, slap the queen bee away and tell him "back off, B- eye -tch"! As long as your hubby doesn't flirt back, you're in no trouble.
PD. Does your husband own any Cher Cd's?
2006-06-24 18:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think he's gay. Just becase guys who are gay find him attractive doesn't mean he's attracted to them.
And Marcus R. gave an answer that said something like, "Your husband is not Gay, but you can make him Gay by pushing him that way, so stop worrying or suffer."
I'm sorry, but I totally disagree with that---you can not "make" anyone gay. A person is who he is. And based on what you've told us, your husband is NOT gay. He's just good looking.
2006-06-24 05:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by gmfo22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men flirt with me all the time and I'm a gay woman. Their flirting with me does not affect my sexuality.
Gay men flirting with your husband does not make him gay, it just makes them hopeful.
2006-06-24 14:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Peter Pan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband probably isn't gay just because gay men flirt with him. I personally have a thing for Latin men ... if he was cutely dressed and had a bubble butt, I'd probably flirt with him myself lol. Just trust your husband and things should be alright.
2006-06-24 06:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If some one is hott, the n they will get hit on, weather it be male or female, gay men think they can have anything they want, because they can, with all the undercover guys out there now, its kinda like giving a child a jar of candy. i have had many "straight" men , and i know i can have any one i want. they just want sex.
2006-06-24 06:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by vidalliendo21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out and take it as a complement. I cannot believe you are asking a stupid question like this. Because straight men flirt with you, does that make you a sl*t? By your logic, I guess it does. Surely you have bigger problems than this to worry about.
2006-06-24 06:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is committed to you, then what does it matter if gay guys hit on him - I bet women hit on him, too, just not where you can see. The issue is whether or not he responds - if he doesn't, he's a good and faithful husband.
As for your other question, it's not necissarily true. anyone of any orientation who thinks an entire sex is under their belts is arrogant and wrong.
Have a pleasant day.
2006-06-24 07:22:42 · answer #9 · answered by oldwhatshername 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah your husband is very gay straight guys would beat the fool out of a gay guy for flirting with them get out of that relation its going to go to the fairies if you know what i mean
2006-06-24 05:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by lequanm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋