my boyfriend is going on holiday for 6 weeks 2nite and i haven't seen him since thursday and i miss him so much already.. i'm going on holiday nxt friday but i don't know how i'm going to get through the nxt week.... we go to the same college so its just goin to be weird without him there...... ive cried since thursday and i cann't stop crying. to make it even more worse i'm on the pill which is making me REALLY depressed... what should i do to keep my self busy and to stop myself crying
2006-06-24 05:25:56 · 17 answers · asked by pretty_pink_gal2004 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It's kind of sad that your entire life is about your boyfriend.
2006-06-24 05:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Remember when you used to have a life without a guy? Used to go out with your friends and maybe just giggle about one or two cute guys. Go see a movie or something. Better yet, read a book. But definetly not the Confessions of Max Tivoli, because that book is SAD!
2006-06-24 21:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by millancad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hinge so much of your own self-worth around this guy--you are asking too much of yourself and him....Any guy likes the idea of having someone love him alot but I don't think many would enjoy having his mate fall apart every time he has to go somewhere--you've got to learn to stand up--on your own and handle life without the constant at hand input of someone else---if you are not strong and independantly capable you as a partner for anyone are bringing far less to the relationship than you should---get a grip--learn to live without constant validation--this will be something you'll be able to put to good use yoiur entire life long---right now you are exemplifying the behaviour of a child---GROW UP
2006-06-24 12:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you dont know how to be independent and always be sticking with your BF you will be branded as a squid or an octopus always clasping and choking your BF. A guy would not want to have somebody like that. A guy would respect and love a girl more if you give him the freedom or encouragement to explore his capabilities. A guy will be a laughing stock if your shadow is always around....give him a break.
Be wise or clever. A smart girl who knows how to handle a relationship will always be cherished.
A girl easy to get will always be easy to forget!!!
Beauty is deceiving.....have you seen a not-so-beautiful girl with a lot of suitors??? you can see that she's smart on the way she interact with her friends and those surrounding her...try to learn the art of interaction....
2006-06-24 22:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by Terminator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel...my lover is going to go away on the July 4th weekend. I'm going to miss him and wonder if he's going to mess around with other girls when he's wasted...
Just try to have a little faith. He'll come back, it's not the end of the world. Try calling him and talking to him whenever you both have the time to. Focus on school, that will fill in the void.
2006-06-24 12:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance makes the heart grow fonder. Go on your trip and have fun. Don't think about him but think on having a great time. When you see him again, you'll be so happy that what you're going through now will be nothing compared to the feeling of being together with your boyfriend again.
2006-06-24 12:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by myspace.com/shosmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surround yourself with friends and family and enjoy their company, and the holiday but if you feel sad then embrace the moment because it will pass and and eventually it won't hurt so much and better yet the 6 weeks will have passed.
2006-06-24 12:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try just talking to him on the phone, or writing to him. Try hanging out with your friends or doing something that you enjoy to pass the time. When I am down, and I can't keep my mind off something, I like watching action movies, because it diverts my attention, and before you know it, you are so into the movie. I am sure he is also very upset, and it is something beyond both of your controls. Just try and cope with it, and before you know it, he will be back !
2006-06-24 12:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by aLyxoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, can you say separation anxiety. Learn independence and that you really don't need a man to live girl or later on your going to be in trouble.
2006-06-24 12:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by Lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you call him? You also need to break the Co-dependancy. You can miss him, but you should also still have a life without him.
2006-06-24 12:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a real pickle if u love hom wait if not go ahead find someone new it might hurt but remember you have needs 2
2006-06-24 12:28:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋