If u could shrink your abusive husband or ex husband would u be tempted to step on him like a bug.?

Answer 1

No. Forgiveness is the answer. From a purely Karmic perspective, the more negative energy (anger, rage, mean thoughts, vengeance) you hurl towards an ex's direction, the more likely it will come back to you abundantly! YOUR life will become a miserable mess, and you will wind up becoming a miserable, cantankerous, mean spirited person, who is bitter, OLD and ugly. Who wants to be around that? I wouldn't, and I certainly wouldn't want others to view me in that light. So I come from a positive perspective; I forgive and let go with love. I wish them well on their journey and thank them for what they taught me about life, relationships and love. I am free then, to carve out my life path, on my own.

Forgiveness of the other, as well as ourselves, for the mistakes we made is key towards our own healing and growth. Anger creates anger which creates more anger, until the anger and rage you feel inside is one, big, ugly and grotesque wound that never heals. You remain stuck in this place and it is toxic - for yourself, your health and other relationships you will have. Letting go and forgiving is healing.

My ex was a total ***. I am being honest here, and he hurt me like no other - physically, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually. Was he at fault? Yes, but so was I. It takes two to tango. I was an equal participant in my marital problems. I was too young, too stupid and too insecure to understand what a real committment meant. Was I furious at first? Yes. Did I blame him for everything? Absolutely. But to grow I had to look at myself, and when I did I saw the whole truth. I forgave us both. It was very freeing for me, and as a consequence, I am happier. In fact, I met my 2nd husband 4 years after I got divorced and I am crazy about him. Had I not freed my mind and my heart, or forgiven my ex, I would not have found my true love, my soul mate.

Answer 2

The method you speak of is in exitance. It's called lettling the judge in the courts of family law take power over the nasty BUG. This powerful word called the JUDGE can shrink the arrogant, abusive, self-abosorbed man into an immasculated NOTHING. Stepping on this jerk like a bug is what the courts do and put this BUG into his place!

Answer 3

I dont have an abusive husband, but I remeber fatasizing about squishing my abusive step-father like a bug. If that is the situation you are in, you need to get out. Its not worth it. Guys like that make you feel you have no choice but to stay with them. They say they'll kill themselves, or you. Or they slowly cut you off from your friends and family. They make you feel like you deserve to be abused, and you DONT! Ok, hes not worth it. If you truly think he may hurt you if you leave, go to the police and see what they can do to protect you. Also, see if there is a Center Against Rape and Domestic Violence (CARV) in your area. I worked for them doing childcare, and let me tell you, not one of those kids were happy and well-adjusted. They were messed up in all kinds of ways and it is sickening. Not just that a man would put a woman thru that, but that the woman hadnt done anything to get out for the sake of her children. I saw those women keep going back to those men, and I saw what it did to their kids and them. Take affirmative action in your life! You only get one chance to live it, and you dont have to live it like this! Best wishes and my prayers! E-mail [e-mail] if you are not leaving because you are worried about money, let me help you, ok? Get in contact with me, and I will be willing to put you on my team, train you, and everything, with awesome benefits.

Answer 4

You need to get out of this relationship. You are day dreaming about stepping on him like a bug. Be careful you don't temp yourself into doing something you might regret some day.

Answer 5

NOPE. I'D PUT HIM IN A JAR AND TORTURE HIM! I'M KIDDING. ABOUT THE TORTURE, BUT NOT ABOUT PUTTING HIM IN A JAR.

IF YOU'RE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP YOU REALLY NEED TO GET OUT. IF YOU DON'T GET OUT, HE MIGHT PUSH YOU OVER THE EDGE ONE DAY AND YOU MIGHT END UP KILLING HIM. AND IF YOU DO THAT WELL YOU'LL GO TO PRISON AND IF YOU GO TO PRISON, WELL LIFE'S GONNA SUCK!

PEOPLE DON'T HAVE AS MUCH COMPASSION ANY MORE FOR THESE ABUSED WIVES. I MEAN IT'S LIKE WHY THE HELL DON'T THEY LEAVE? I UNDERSTAND IF YOU'RE IN A SITUATION WHERE IT'S YOU OR HIM, THEN HEY BY ALL MEANS PROTECT YOURSELF. BUT A LOT OF THESE WOMEN LET IT GET TO THAT POINT.

ANYWAY, YOU TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND IF YOU'RE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP GET OUT, OR YOU MIGHT JUST FIND OUT THE HARD WAY. HEAVEN FORBID HE LOSE CONTROL ONE DAY AND END YOUR LIFE. DON'T LET THAT HAPPEN. GOOD LUCK TO YOU.

Answer 6

Nope, forgiveness will help your wounds heal. Forgive and forget, because the stepping on his is wasted energy. Let go of it (and yes it takes time) but dont focus any more efforts on this type of person. Be blessed.

Answer 7

I wouldn't step on him... I would put him into a bug carrier and ask him how does that feel. The tables have turned.

Answer 8

lol i wouldn't want the mess on my shoes my ex's aren't worthy of being steped on in time they all get what is coming to them so be happy with yourself and move forward thinking of revenge isn't gonna get you anywhere. Believe in Karma and it may take a few years but eventually they are their own undoing

Answer 9

You need to be a women and not let these men step all over you. You need to take back your life and open up a can of whip *** on these men.

Answer 10

No, someone with a lot more power than me will take care of that. I would get on with the business of trying to become the best person I could be, thereby making my life the best it can be.