why do poeple hate me?

Question

i'm a nice girl i work hard at school, i have friends but why don't people like me. i'm nice and i don't do werid stuff. i gets wht to kown why poeple hate me.

Answer 1

i bet people don't hate you..maybe you are not putting yourself out there enough...i know a lot of nice girls who are shy, so they would never talk to people, but once they started to open up they were awesome and we all hung out...way to be nice..that's the best thing ever, because girls these days, well, they are something...and keep up the hard work at school...try to be more social maybe? good luck

Answer 2

Well maybe because you smart, you don't do drugs and whatever else your peers are doing. Sometimes people will put you down for making the right decisions, specially your peers. Nevertheless, you shouldn't be worried about that. Not everybody will like you regardless of your personalities. Anyways, do not change your attitude for those who do not like you and stay true to yourself by working hard at school, being nice to other and stay away from weird stuff as you mentioned earlier.

Have a nice day

Answer 3

Dear Brit, no one, in the history of the world, has been liked by everyone. IF you have a circle of friends, consider yourself lucky. If you do not, look inward to find the problem. I cannot tell you that you are a nice person, a caring person, a non-judgmental person, or any kind of person. I do know that the least-liked people are those that correct others in public, who always have to be right about everything, who only want the group to do what they want to do, who are vociferous in their opinions, and who talk badly about others behind their backs. Gossip carriers may be fun to listen to for a moment, but are avoided as friends. Gaining friends is a real job..it takes lots of energy, lots of doing, and lots of giving. Good luck

Answer 4

I'm 24 and middle school and high school were the hardest not everybody liking you. What I realize is that I didn't need those negative people I'm there for my future. You need boost your self-esteem and work hard at your school work. Me I got into a fight with a girl and everybody didn't talk to me so I didn't have anybody but you do so that's a plus always in this world not everybody is going to like you but if you have at least 1 friend wow thats best.. And Just say to yourself what is best for you, And COnfidense is the KEY to success. So Good Luck

Answer 5

britt, you shouldn't care one bit of what people have to think. cherish the ones that really care and put the others in the trashbin darling. you'll enjoy life much better keep on doing your thing and be a sweetheart.also you would be part of the few people making this world a better place to live in. people hate one another from since the beggining of time its quite normal. everywhere you turn there is some dispute between people. some teens like to shoo shoo with others about people they wish they could be like you. that's all they can do you just be serious when around them and pay them no mind. when they see you're not taking them on they would just melt and go away. hope it was a good answer.

Answer 6

You'e gonna need to be a bit more specific here, you haven't really given enough information about yourself for anyone to come up with a solid answer. Here's some possibilities of the top of my head, but I have no idea how right they might be:

1. You seem to think that people dislike people who do weird stuff, this sort of implies that you yourself don't like people who do weird stuff. Maybe you can be judegmental and mean to people who you think are beng "weird"?

2. You say you work hard at school, are you one of the smart girls? Often the smart people aren't popular because they make other students jealous, the other students might see you as arrogant.

3. Maybe you're too clingy, you seem to want quite badly for people to like you, and that can sometimes make people dislike you. It can be annoying having someone fluttering round you constantly trying to make you like them.

4. Maybe you're just being paranoid, maybe you mistake apathy (people not caring about you one way or another) for antipathy (people not liking you).

At the end of the day, there are ALWAYS going to be people who dislike you, it's part of life. Like, if you always say to people "Hi, how are you?" some people will like you for it, other's will think you're being a bit false (because they think you don't really care how they are). It doesn't really matter what you do, there'll always be someone who dislikes you for it, so it might just be best to be yourself and forget about it :)

Answer 7

You shouldn't worry about other people hating you,as long as you are happy with yourself,and you treat people the way they should be treated,then you will have plenty friends,and a few good friends are alot better to have than a thousand bad ones.
One of my very best friends told me once that a person is lucky if they have 5 true good friends in their whole lifetime

Answer 8

If you are in high school...don't worry about it too much because it was like that for me also. I gaurantee that you will bloom and have tons of friends when you get a little older. At a high school level, kids just tend to be cruel...they'll grow up and things will be differant all across the board. Hang in there.

Answer 9

Ahhhhhhhhhhh Its all in the mind hun from what you have said you seem like a nice girl. You will probably have a little jealousy to deal with, but not hate, so cheer up and think nice thoughts

Answer 10

They might be jealouse of your smarts and ability. This will sometime look to you as they hate you.Just try to make friends and if you cant then wait till you are around more mature people later in your life. You will find a group of people that will like you. Dont worry. I am asuming you are in HS those people will not be in your life forever so dont try so hard with them. Trust me that is how it was for me too.