I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, hes very attractive. I was having a little get together with a few friends last week. I went to the store to get some stuff. When I came back everything seemed a bit tense in the room, i put on some music but 2 of my other close friends grabbed my arm and pulled me into my room. They told me that My friend was trying to make moves on him but to try and act natural. Later on when everybody left he stayed I asked him about it, he ensured me not to worry about it, but did admit that she has asked him to have sex with him before, and when i'm not in sight she flirts constantly. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-06-24 05:00:49 · 41 answers · asked by JustaThought 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get this "friend" out of your life and don't let her back into your home ... unless you want a threesome.
2006-06-24 05:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her!!!!! Tell her what you've heard. Ask her for an explanation... then keep her away. Also, you need to ask your boyfriend why he didn't mention this to you before. You had to hear it from someone else. Is he giving her the impression that he might be interested? You need to get to the bottom of this. There may be more to the picture than meets the eye. Find out how long this has been going on.
2006-06-24 05:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one's a no-brainer. Your friend has broken the foundation of your friendship, loyalty. She has deliberately gone behind your back and made moves on your man. That in my book is a very deadly offense. Obviously your friend does not think that her relationship with you is worth anything. She's made a conscious decision to go behind your back and steal your boyfriend. I suggest that you stay away from her and ask your boyfriend to do the same. If she flirted with him before, he should have stopped her. Encouraging this kind of behavior is not advisable.
Some people are just not good for you and your friend is one of them. Move on with your life..
2006-06-24 05:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new friend. At least confront her and tell her that that is unacceptable. She will say that she was only joking around. Let her pretend this, but make it clear that this makes you very uncomfortable and to never do this again.
And then tell your bf about it and ask him to avoid being alone with her. My gf (now wife) did this and I happily complied. I love my wife and would never cheat on her. But I also honor her by not even allowing the appearance of cheating.
Good luck.
2006-06-24 05:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by ksjazzguitar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to confront your "friend" and tell her you know whats been going on. Let her know that you aren't going to deal with her backstabbing you - you might tell her that you are ending the friendship because of her untrustworthy actions.
She isn't really your friend if she is openly (in front of your other friends) trying to seduce your boyfriend of 2yrs. This woman is poison and will continue to try to ruin your relationship. You deserve better friends, like the ones that actually came clean and told you what she was up to.
2006-06-24 05:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her. What kind of best friend would do that? And watch your man. Love and sex are two different things to some men and if she keeps it up he just may break week. Your real friends are the one's who told you.
2006-06-24 05:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by tall_slimm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised you still call her your friend. that's not a friend, that's a selfish little ***** that cares nothing about loosing your friendship. i would also question why you friends had to tell you that instead of your man being the first one to inform you. things are probably much deeper than it seems or you may know
2006-06-24 05:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront the both of them and ask them what the deal is. Tell them that you need the truth and if your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore then its time to move on... but it has been two years. It shouldn't be gone easily...
2006-06-24 05:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by silvs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make sure this friend was never around your boyfriend again. Confront her about it, tell her that your other friends and your boyfriend said she tries to hit on him when you arent around and then when you are done confronting her tell her you dont want to be her friend anymore. If she cared about you as a friend she would never even think of being with your boyfriend. I could never even date my best friends EX boyfriend, muchless their current one.
2006-06-24 05:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, girlfriend, seem like you need to kick her a** , and drop her like a bad habit. Your bf must be very honesty too, he did tell you what she did and said. Also confront her a** about and ask her. That said like a fight on.
2006-06-24 05:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by cymp30boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her. If she wants to have sex with your boyfriend, she is not a friend. She has no respect for you and only wants to get him for herself . Drop her, she has no feelings for you. Some girls think that, if they can get a boy to have sex with them, they will have a hold on him.
2006-06-24 05:07:04 · answer #11 · answered by Deana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋