And lay out at the bar. He waits 'til I'am a sleep and sneaks out. I feel like I can't sleep cause I don't know what is going on.
2006-06-24 04:56:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Talk to him openly and honestly about how you feel when he sneaks out and always chooses his friends over you. He might just be a big baby and want to hang out with his buddies - but thats not acceptable all the time. He needs to realize that his family should come first.
2006-06-24 05:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha he is an adult and he is sneaking out on you does he need to do that! Can he not just tell you where he is going and what time will he be back? He sounds like a teenager!
If you do not let him be with his friends well he has no other choice but to sneak out!
And if your not like that than he does not need to sneak but tell you!
Do you have problems with his friends? There has to be a reason for this sneaking out! If he was just a man he would walk out the door no matter what you say to him and he be back when he wants..... there is something your not telling!!
anyways if you really want this to stop than let him be with his friends!! we all need a break sometimes... hang with friends refresh ones mind.... just drink a bit and forget all the problems in life!! That's why we like to go out with friends that does not mean that he does not love his family.... he does he just needs to relax himself!!
2006-06-24 05:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true man will never pick his friends over his family. Seems like to me he's immature, and if he doesn't change soon, then you've got some decisions to make. All this sneaking around is no good. I think you should confront him, and if he starts giving you answers that don't satisfy you, then it'll be time to put your foot down and make some rules. If he don't abide by them rules, then you know what you have to do. Best of luck to you.........
2006-06-24 05:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your husband is very immature. How old is he? Teenagers sneak out of the house like this. Be careful, you don't want to be stuck with raising an extra child. Be on the lookout.
2006-06-24 05:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's insanity. He is acting like a teenager. Why does he think it's acceptable to do something that YOU wouldn't. Ask him how he'd like it if you did it. What makes YOU responsible to stay home and be a responsible parent with your children while he acts like a 16 year old and goes out? You cannot tolerate this type of behavior. Put your foot down. Get counseling. Do something drastic.
2006-06-24 05:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I NO ITS HARD I WAS JUST LIKE YOU B-4 YRS AGO,YOU SHOULD NOT BE HOME AND THE KIDS WHEN HE GETS THERE TEACH HIM A LESSON CAUSE HES GONNA KEEP DOING THIS CAUSE YOU ALLOW IT OR YOU START GETING A BABY SITTER AND WHEN HE GOES OUT ,YOU DO IT TOO AND IF YOU LEAVE !LEAVE HIM A LEETER SAYING TILL YOU DESIDE UR FAMILY OR FRIENDS AND GOING OUT ,CALL ME CAUSE IM NOT COMING BACK TELL HIM WHY UR CHANGING ,IF HE CARE SHE WILL STOP ATLEAST 4 THE KIDS I DONT THINK HE REALLY LOVE TYOU IF HE DOESTHIS 2 YOU ,YOU WANT TO THINK HE LOVES YOU!!!WAKE UP THEY DO IT TILL YOU PUT A STOP!!!!! BALEVE ME I NO!!
2006-06-24 05:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by ONE FRIENDLYGIRL2NO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does not feel you love him.maybe he feels you are not holding on as tight as youu should.maybe he is lying and cheating on you.Talk to him.
2006-06-24 05:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by lildg2014 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋