you do? For ex. if they act like everything you do is wrong when they are with someone else but normal when you are only with them? probably confusing, i know
2006-06-24 04:49:54 · 14 answers · asked by depukel4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If your close friends I would sit down with her and talk about it. Don't be mean about it; just be honest and calm. Maybe your friend will see your point of view and realize how it makes you feel. I tell you by experience.
2006-06-24 04:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hanging out with her. Why do you want to hang out with someone who makes you feel like less than what you are. You view her as a friend, so I am sure you'll miss her in the beginning, but just treat her as an acquaintance. You need a friend that lifts your spirits, whether you're hanging out alone with her or with a bunch of other friends. Move on.
2006-06-24 04:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person is just a poser and is acting different ways around different ppl because she wants to be liked. Drop her, shes not a good friend.
2006-06-24 04:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. This is what they call a fine-weather-friend. Only your friend when the climate is good (no peer pressure) and you're not having any problems you need help with.
2006-06-24 04:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by shehawke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, then if that happens she is not real because a person must be and act the same no matter who their with!
2006-06-24 04:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by mimi_#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's a control issue. A situation in which he/she can make an example out of you, or pressure you into thinking thoughts of insecurity.
2006-06-24 04:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't consider them a friend. It sounds abusive. Like trying to portray that she is better than you and whoever she's taking to should know that she is better than you and they should like her better than you.
2006-06-24 04:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a guy, get rid of her. If you're a girl, get rid of him. He or she is only a fickle friend, not a real one.
2006-06-24 04:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them how you are feeling if they dont change then find a new friend
2006-06-24 04:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by shayfrmr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys juss act like that..
tell him it bothers you
if he doesnt fix it
dump him
2006-06-24 04:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by A Jah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋