She says crazy stuff like the baby isn't mine if it is she don't wont me in there life. Which cause me to say worst thing to her.Then she changes it up and say she is sorry she only says those thing cause she is miserable. She has been threw a lot. Her brother passed three weeks ago she took it bad and the same day she found out she was pregnant with our child. Were close sometimes i think too close cause we don't care what we say to each other. But now i'm confused because i think there is some truth to what she is sayin. And really dont want to be around her at all. She says she miserable and wants me to to be miserable too.She's the type person u cant help even she see is failling. I love her to death but she dressin me. She's 20 wit a three year old. We've been together ever since he was 10 months.
2006-06-24 04:45:22 · 10 answers · asked by tre_rd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WHY DO YOU CARE SHE IS YOUR X
2006-06-24 04:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well... You should probably find out if the baby really is yours, maybe ask her to sit down and talk to you about it. Saying rude things to one another doesn't mean youre too close, just not stable at this point. Pregnancy does bring mood swings, and sometimes doubt. I am pregnant and when i feel miserable, the last thing i want is everyone around me to be miserable too, that just makes things worse! The baby needs a calm environment, and its mother is selfish for trying to bring you down with her. Try pouring her a hot bath with candles and tell her to simply, relax. Right now, however, she needs you on her team.
2006-06-24 11:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Taryn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience having a child throws you world into a spin. Mood swing are for the most part uncontrollable. And add another child on top to take care of while you are pregnant! Oh my Gosh!! Stop fighting with her. When she starts saying mean hurtful things, just leave or hang up. If you love her then help her, not fight. Fight even alittle makes it 10X worse.
2006-06-24 11:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stick around till the baby is born and then request a DNA test, because if the baby is your's then I'm sure you want to know what goes on during the pregnancy right? If the baby is not your's, if you feel up to it, you can always be the daddy. There are too many father's out there and not enoufh of them are daddys.
2006-06-24 11:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by Wanna get down not the 1st night 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it sounds lke you still care for her you are going to have to be very understanding of the mood changes About the kid that might not be yours its easy take a dna test when the baby is born don't stress your self Soo Good LUCk
2006-06-24 12:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a decision you have to make yourself.Women can be terrible when they are pregnant. What you have to figure out is whether it is irrationality because she is pregnant (ie wild mood swings) or whether it is your relationship (ie always upset)
2006-06-24 11:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by A A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always get a dna test. maybe she isn't just hormones maybe she's bipolar. tell her if she cares about her other child and the one she's carrying she would go to the doc and get some help.. good luck...
2006-06-24 11:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by jrcdsl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she was not ready for another child, some women change moods when there pregnant.give it some time and give her some space, maybe she needs to find herself.Take her out to dinner and have a night between just you and her.*****
2006-06-24 11:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's big time stressed out!
2006-06-24 11:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by LUNCHY THE PIRATE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hormones and stress. Just be there for her.
2006-06-24 11:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by yogazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋