He never listen and he tries to be mean to his baby sister (i don't leave him alone with her she is always with me) but i really need some ideas he listens to everyone else but me.
2006-06-24 04:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you need to be firm, give him clear rules so he understands what is right and wrong. when he is naughty give him 1 warning that what he is doing is wrong and if he doesn't stop it then (whatever punishment you choose, i take toys away and use a naughty beanbag) if you give a warning and he is still naughty always follow through with the punishment. never get angry, upset and never shout or hit but be constant and firm and you will see a difference in him. try positive encouragement too like you are playing so nice with your sister, can you show her how to do.....? get him involved in stuff like tidying up with a prize for good behaviour. you could start a star chart so he can see where he is being good and bad and if he gets 10 stars he can choose a prize from a bag and if he gets a week of 10 stars he gets to choose a special prize like going for a picnic or to the zoo. take stars away if he is naughty and draw a sad face in its place, you could also explain that when he is naughty that how you feel. good luck, i hope this is of some help to you......i did this with my 3 year old and it worked wonders.
2006-06-25 08:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by rubytuesday. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a dad but you need to be consistent with him. If you ask him do do something, only ask him once. The more you repeat your request, he will learn he doesnt have to listen the first few times you ask. Be consistent. If you put him in time out for 3 minutes (1 minute per year old) make him stay there for 3 minutes. Keep your rules the same. Dont bend them or make exceptions. This will be a tough adjustment for him but eventually he will figure out how mommy operates and what he can get away with and what he cant. As for beby sister he is probably jealous. He absorbed all the attention for so long and now he has to share. Explain that to him and eventually he will get it. God bless and good luck!
2006-06-24 04:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mike S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.....Um...Please study your question. Do you notice how rediculous you sound? the new child's 3 years previous. he's not meant to be a guy yet. he's a new child. infants learn by way of play. in case you proceed with the way you're elevating him, that unfavorable boy is going to have severe psycological subject concerns whilst he grows up. Intelligence is one ingredient, yet you will get no the place in existence without love. and how you're treating him, whether you do love your son, he will advance up questioning which you do no longer; that he's not stable sufficient for you, that he won't in any respect be waiting to adventure your standards, and he will despise you. i comprehend you do no longer want that. So permit the new child be a new child. practice him approximately 'starting to be up' whilst he's older, whilst it rather is the final time. approximately 17 on the earliest...supply him a great gamble to make his very own errors and learn from them. he will learn so lots greater from that then he will you pounding those training into his head.
2016-10-31 10:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quote "i don't leave him alone with her she is always with me". Maybe thats the problem... he is trying hard to get your attention. Why not let someone babysit your daughter sometimes and spend some one on one time with your son ( like it used to be) He probably misses that! If you feel this is not the problem, then try giving him "time out"...make him spend time alone. At his age, only 3-5 minutes of time out is needed to get your point across.
2006-06-24 04:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by batsey99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to act like a mom and take control how the hell is you letting a three year old run things you sound like a fool even admitting that you cant handle a little # year old child. you need to take control mom. whip that *** i mean it. spare the rod spoil the child. whip his little *** into submission. if you need some techniques or some help in any kind of way email me at jus_032000@yahoo.com
2006-06-24 04:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by Justin D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really nothing you can do except dixscipline them every time they do something wrong.
When my 4y/o daughter or my 1 y/o son hits someone, and I see it, I smack their hands.
When they bi8te someone, (I don't bite hard) I bite them.
When they say something mean bad or hateful, I tap their mouth, just to get their attention.
Something like jumping on furniture or something or jumping off something, I smack their foot.
I also explain to them that I love them, this is why I have to discipline them and I explain to them why they can't be doing or saying what they do. It is never too early to start explaining why they shouldn't be doing something.
2006-06-24 04:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
punish his a$$ trust me a goo spanking will bring back into the real worl
2006-06-24 04:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs child counselling.
2006-06-24 04:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.keepkidshealthy.com/preschool/preschooldiscipline.html
2006-06-24 04:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by thegirlwholovedbrains 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋