This guy i have liked for a while was really Nice and cleaned up at the begining of the year, he wore button down shirts, nice jeans, he just looked really good. But then towards the middle of the year he started hanging out with the school s*l*u*t(who btw faked her own abduction) and just ppl that were bad news. And then the nice clean look was GONE! it was the sameold jeans the same freakin hoodie, then he got his ear pierced 2wice in one ear. And let some one do it for him, he didnt go to the store to have it done or anything! And to top it off he started failing classes(well he was already having trouble in school but then he really did) It wasnt even a stud it was a loop!!!! god i just dont understand why he would completly change himself like that. It just makes me really upset.
2006-06-24 04:21:04 · 11 answers · asked by yep 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm not trying to be his keeper! It just scares me that he's doing this to himself! He could do so much more! And now hes throwing it all away! And i just wish he could see it too! Hte ear piercing would have been fine but it just made me think what the hell is he doing to him self! That girl is so much trouble!!!!
2006-06-24 04:30:22 · update #1
I'm not jealous of Her! I have no reason to be she is a SLUT!!! I on the other hand dont dress like a skank and do every guy in the school! I am worried about him bcuz i know hes better then what hes acting like!
2006-06-24 05:00:55 · update #2
You dont sound confused, you sound jealous. he isnt doing anything to YOU... only you can control your feelings, so stop blaming others and move on.
2006-06-24 04:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by batsey99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's most probably you're just jealous that he's changing himself to hang out with that girl. And he's probably still the nice, clean guy deep down inside. But since he's not being himself for someone else, you don't have to think about him. He doens't deserve it. So move on - find someone else that loves himself as he already is and would not change to be someone else to please another. Good luck, hon.
2006-06-24 04:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by teehee :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry girl. guys go through phases. they want to be cool and hang out with the cool people. dont worry when he turns about 21 or so he will go back to normal maybe, dont be stuck on him there are more fish in the sea. guys will change, for the better or worse just dont let them bring u down.. GOOD LUCK
2006-06-24 04:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can't be more obvious that his ''new friends'' have their own code of communication and their unique style (earings and not clean clothes). He acts like a monkey: monkeys are used to mimic staff and they don't have their own behavior. DON'T BE SURPRISED IF YOU SEE HIM SMOKING. He will surely act like his friends so he can be acceptable by them. I know you are worried about that, but unfortunately you can't do nothing about that. The only persons who are responsible for him are his parents.
Maybe he was tired of his style and was searching for new things like a ''more wild'' behavior. Maybe he wanted new friends or girlfriend! He is the only one who knows the real reasons. If you talk to him, AVOID CRITICING HIM. You will lose him forever because he will see that you don't accept him. Stand by him BUT
DON'T LET HIM MAKE YOU LIKE HIM.
2006-06-24 04:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
evry1 changes several times in their life. It's how we find out who we are. U may not like the changes, but that's who he wants to b...for now.
2006-06-24 04:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by stillatello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes changing himself for that other girl you told us about. find someone else but still be his friend.
2006-06-24 04:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like this s*l*u*t is very influential on him...either that or his true self is finally coming out.
2006-06-24 04:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Terious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is gullable and is changing to impress his "girlfriend"
2006-06-24 06:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by Scatman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All for the slut.
2006-06-24 04:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by bobthecook56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not his keeper. Leave him alone.
2006-06-24 04:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋