i was dranked in a parti and sleep with a man . he taked photo and he wants hush money . i paid him .but he wants more should i tell to my husband the story ? althouh he will divorce me or may even kill me.
2006-06-24 04:14:31 · 14 answers · asked by babakbouda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should have told him when you first realized you had done this, then you wouldn't have had to pay any money. THe biggest and most important thing in a relationship is COMMUNICATION, TRUST and HONESTY. If you don't have this, then you don't have a relationship.
It is better to tell your partner at the earliest convenience and make sure YOU are the one to tell him.
2006-06-24 04:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Obviously this is not a good situation and this is the best advice I can think of! I believe in honesty so I'll be honest with you! Sounds like you really screwed up. If I was in your position (and I was) I would tell him immediatly because I love him and I really want to be forgiven! This is not easy to answer since you say he might kill you and if that is a serious thing you may want to wait until he becomes a christian!
2006-06-24 11:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by peace2all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to come out in the open with the problem. Go to the police and set the guy up for his criminal actions. You can tell your husband you were drugged or something. Letting anyone blackmail you has no bright spot. It only goes downhill. Get the cops involved and get the scum behind bars.
2006-06-24 11:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have my doubts that your 35 years old. That being said you need to go to the police, let them deal with him, you on the other hand played and you need to be an adult and face the music with your husband. If you think he will actually try to kill you then tell that to the police too before you talk to your husband.
2006-06-24 12:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by letsbnoty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, first of all, you should be ashamed of your self. 35 yr old women conducting herself this way. if all of this is true, you need to call the police, stop worrying about what your husband is gonna say cause if this fool keeps extorting money from you, your husband is gonna find out real soon. this person is committing a crime. the only thing you will suffer is embarrassment. DO IT
2006-06-24 11:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by davionmw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just better get ready for a major change in your lifestyle. If I was your husband I'd be pissed about you sleeping with the guy AND I'd be pissed about you paying him off....Your husband should divorce you, and he's got a hell of a good chance at getting 100% custody of your children...GOOD LUCK
2006-06-24 11:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by J P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello babe, do not worry. The guy is a worm call his bluff or call me and I will fix it for you. Why did you do it, do you love you're man? Do not tell you're husband, do you have a brother or a male freind that could help? Does you're man deserve the pain it will cause him???? Fix it. Soon as possible. Good luck. xx
2006-06-24 11:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come 2 months ago you were 52?
2 months before that you love women?
2006-06-24 11:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by sadie_oyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you just human so you had fun but hush money no tell him or some one you cant do this to your self ok i know im not in your shoes but dont do this get out of it fast and now
2006-06-24 11:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to go to the police. This man is committing extortion, and could be arrested. The police might be "cool" about it, and your husband would not have to be told.
2006-06-24 11:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by Feathery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋