alright at first we had a strong relationship then it wore down because my parents decided they didnt like him he was white trash but to me he wasnt i made him stop doing things he shouldnt do none of his other g/f had done that but me but then we broke up got togeather broke up got back togeather then one day i had decided that i was done with it so we were done for good then i had realized i had made the biggest mistake EVER and now hes moved and everything i mean i email him every onece in a while but i dont know what else to do to tell him that im sorry i mean im ready to do anythiing to get him back im willing to behind my parents back to see him i just dont no wat to do ot what to say so someone please help me o and im 14 going on 15 in 2 months and hes 17????
2006-06-24 04:03:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is possible that your parents are judging him before they have a chance to get to know him better but there is also a huge chance that they are correct about him too. The word white trash is a terrible word to use no matter what it is they see in him when explaining to you why they don't care for him. It would have been better for you if they explained exactly why they don't like him. Remember, they are your parents and parents want the best for their children. At your age and I remember it well, i felt my feelings for my boyfriend, at the time, were so strong that nothing would change it, not my mom or anyone else but my feelings did change and the advice my mother gave me was pretty accurate even though i didn't want to believe it. I continued to date his guy for six years, from fifteen to nineteen. We broke up my first year in college. I changed but for the better. One thing i learned was you can't change any one. When i started dating again I met men who were closest to the things i like or admired. For all you know the mistake you think you made could be the best thing you have ever done even though it doesn't feel that way right now. You have many years to find the right guy or one you don't have to change. Your parents might say things to you that will encourage you to do the complete opposite of what they want but parents do have an advantage over their children, experience.
2006-06-24 04:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by mia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you but you have a crush. And it sounds like your older b/f is using you to get what he wants and doesn't care. You might not like your parents' decisions or opinions, but trust me, they probably know better.
2006-06-24 12:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by jonbruine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 16 and the boy i love so dearly my mother hates him but we finna have baby together (i hope) and our 2 year anniversary is on the 30th of this month my momma still hates him but i love him so she gotta deal with is...i was sneakin off with him but them i just told my momma she gotta live wit tha fact that im growin up and imma have him n my life
jakia -n- jamell faeva always
2006-06-24 11:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to continue a good relationship with your parents you probably don't want to see him any more.
2006-06-24 11:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by PHATBBW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋