Do you believe its the way to go? Or would you prefer to get a few in before marriage, or even get a few when you are married.
2006-06-24 04:00:53 · 32 answers · asked by Abbey National 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Its not premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
2006-06-24 04:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by soulsearcher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, it depends what u believe in. I think that it should be done, but sometimes temptations get the best of you and it doesnt happen that way. And getting "a few in" after your married is disrespectful to your spouse and just isnt right. If your worried about having a sex with a few girls while your married and your not even married yet, you are not the married material. Save your husband or wife the heartache and dont get married, you would make a terrible married partner. Marriage is sacred, and this is what your thinking about? If it really bothers you talk to the person your with and ask yourselves if you are really ready to be with only one person?
2006-06-24 04:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your willing so have sex with someone, then you love them enough to marry them first.
You ever notice all the bad things that come with sex before marriage. If you only have sex with the person you marry there isnt any STD's or unwanted pregnancies. Your not ready to have sex unless your ready for a baby, which means your married.
2006-06-25 19:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by A* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could say I waited until I was married, but of course I can't...I do know that it has messed up a lot of things in my marriage though. If I were you, I would wait. There are just to many bad things out there, like STD's, getting pregnant before you are ready, and a bunch of other stuff like that. I personally don't think it's worth it.
2006-06-24 04:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont believed because now a days we are in a new generations and most of women/man preferred to have sex before married, married may takes a long year and its not easy for a man/woman to wait that long or either the man/woman are both old humans or other in 5% in 100 are believed in that but its too impossible now a days.
2006-06-24 04:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends if i was dating a chick that was alright probaly not if i was dating someone like 5-9 or 5-10 that weiged like 135 or 140 then i would not belive in sex before marriage but for the most part i belive would should save our sefles for marriage.
2006-06-24 04:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its best to not have sex until you get married because it has to be something speacil. One night stands arn't speacil and I want my first time to be speacil and memerable with someone I love dearly. Not some chick I picked up from the streets!
I would like to one day sit on the bed and talk to my wife about everything even our first time... and its the level of trust which is important... sometimes girls may risk their lives because of one night stands!
You need to trust someone a lot before you can have sex... but little people nowdays tend to think about this and let the bliss of sex get to them!
2006-06-24 04:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by silvs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm totally against sex before marriage.
I may only be 14, but I'm not an idiot on this.
It's against my religion, and to me it just seems wrong..
I mean, it's got to be nice to finally be your wedding night and to know that your partner saved themselves for you and only you.
Right?
And I'm sorry, but the whole "You've got to try a shoe on before you buy it" or "You give your car a test run before you buy it, it's the same thing" is just a load of crap.
I would think that if you love the person enough, it doesn't matter how good they are in bed....It just seems...Insensitive.
2006-06-29 16:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me. I think a marriage is a lifetime contract (at first I think everyone wish to have one and only marriage, right). Because it is a lifetime so you better to have a kind of 'test drive'. Otherwise, be ready to live miserably for the rest of your life.
2006-06-24 04:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by Fun Fearless!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi all,
As many of you know sex with one partner gives you Joy, happiness, satisfaction , comfort , love felling, attachment, commitment & integrity.
At the same time sex with many gives only joy for that particular time, after that you feel guilty, frighten, uneasiy, no love for those partner, unsatisfy with any one, internal lonelyness & finall no integrity.
So better to have sex with one parter with approval & sentioning of your elders, socity in the form of marriage.
So its always better to get married first & then have sex with you life time partner.
Regards
Dev
2006-06-24 04:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by Dev from Gods land INDIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should test drive the man before you marry him. A life of less than stellar sex is just horrible.
But once you say the I do, you've settled for good. No others after that but your man.
2006-06-24 04:04:32 · answer #11 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋