I know its none of my business but i want a good life 4 them!
2006-06-24 03:57:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well you could try explaining to them how it makes you feel and how it affects you. You may need to speak with them separately and when they are calm, Tell them how it makes you feel and that it hurts to hear them fighting and arguing as you love them both. It may help calm the disagreements, but it probably will not eliminate them.
2006-06-24 04:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Carol P 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about the things they are having problems with and how they could better handle the problem. Remind them that by working together on things more gets done than by having their strength divided in arguing. Since marriage is supposed to be 50/50 they need to give a little on their views of how to do things. Remind them why they joined together in life and it was not to bicker about things. Tell them you enjoy feeling the love in the house and the togetherness but do not like the tensions brought about by differences they have. They need a refresher course in sharing good and bad in marriage. Only by working together can good come out of pressures.
2006-06-24 04:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you need to talk to both of them about something that is very important and personal to you. This oughta get their attention. Make the room peaceful, maybe you can put some soft music in the background before you talk to them. Set the room up to be comfortable. Then proceed to tell them both that you love them, but that their fighting is making you sad and uncomfortable. Tell them both in a passive manner how you feel about their fighting.
You'd be surprised of the reaction you might get from them. You will totally grab them off guard with this approach, and they might not realize how upset you are about all this. They are probably so caught up in the fighting that they forget that it can be affecting you or any other children in the house.
I don't know how old you are, but the way you put your question and are asking for help, tells me you are old enough to pull this through.
Good luck. Let me know what happens. I'll be praying for you. God bless.
2006-06-24 04:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents will always argue, that's the nature of things. However, if your parents' arguments are bothering you, you need to have a meeting with them (when they're not fighting) and ask them to please not to argue and fight in front of you. That's the best you can do.
2006-06-24 05:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by jonbruine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.
That is up to them.
What you can do is make sure that you pick a relationship for yourself in the future that will keep you from doing the same thing.
That means, assess your values and pick someone that has the same values.
2006-06-24 04:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do.
Why dont you speak to each of your parents and tell them they are making you unhappy with their fighting.
2006-06-24 04:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't
you can ask them not to fight where you have to hear it all the time because it upsets you... but whether or not they chose to do/control that is up to them.
2006-06-24 04:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by bigbadwolfe_2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make them get along. Just show them both that you love them!
2006-06-24 03:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not for you to decide what is a good life- only they can come to that conclusion - stay out of it
2006-06-24 03:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by grisgris100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, they have to work it out for themselves. You don't say how old you are. Good Luck to you!!!
2006-06-24 04:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋