You find this girl shows you all the love but she says her problem is what to tell the person who told her first that he loves her.
2006-06-24 03:45:54 · 20 answers · asked by quorora 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You should move on; and if she does not follow (leave the other man), then it wasn't meant to be. You are currently missing opportunities to find someone who is into you!
2006-06-24 03:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by LittleFreedom 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best advice I can give you is step back and give her all the space she needs. If she really loves you she will find the words to tell the other man in the picture. If she never breaks it off you will be hurt far worse if you don't back up and give yourself a chance to love someone else. I know this is easy advice to give and hard to take. Good luck to you.
2006-06-24 03:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by javydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on honey. Too much drama is too much trouble. Why have your heart broken for or by someone who is getting the goods at home. That is cheap and im sure you can find better. Someone will love you without all the bs. and no man or woman should except that, except better. Been there, so I know.
Chaka
2006-06-24 03:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love....We are designed to love and be loved. It is possible to love more than one person even at the same time and certainly during your lifetime......before the stakes get too high (marriage???) it is best to know your partner well and yourself even better. I think if she wanted to get to know you better, than she should tell boyfriend number 1 exactly that....no commitments, no promises, that she just wants to grow and learn more about herself and others before making any serious commitments. She may "lose" him forever and then it wasn't meant to be....if she's unwilling to take that risk, then she really isn't interested in you, now is she?
2006-06-24 03:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by miatalise12560 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is trying to have her cake and eat it too.
Best of both worlds....hubby and bf.
I would walk away from her as fast as I could. If she is serious she will follow. If she is playing she will have a new gamer by the end of the week.
Watched a buddy go through this for 2 years before he woke up.
2006-06-24 03:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to sort her self out.. back of and tell her to call you when she is ready for just one man.. seriously move away from this girl.. she doesnt know what she wants or she would have cut that other guy off a long time ago.
2006-06-24 03:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by CF_ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for whom she cares for more and who she can see spending the rest of her life with, you or the other guy? Demand an answer but I would allow her to think about it for a couple of days. Good Luck!
2006-06-24 03:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly the woman was not in true love.
The love what she showed is not the right love rather it is the false one just to cheat u.
So don't believe her.
2006-06-24 04:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by LetsBeClear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL ITS LIKE THIS....
WOMEN ARE WEIRD..
THEY GOT THIS REALLY WEIRD SENSE OF PROPRIETARY....TO TELL U THE TRUTH THIS IS WAT M DOIN WITH A SOME ONE...
NOT PROUD OF IT BUT ITS JUST THE WAY CIRCUMSTANCES ARE...I LL TELL U MY SITUATION..MAYBE U LL GET UR ANSWER FROM IT..
I MARRIED A GUY WHO HAS BEEN WITH ME THRU ALL THE HARD TIMES I HAVE GONE THRU...
ITS BEEN 7 YRS TO OUR MARRIAGE..AND I DO RESPECT HIM BUT KINDA DONT LOVE HIM..
NOW I GOT A CERTAIN FRIEND AND AM IN LOVE WID HIM.
HE ASKS ME REPEATEDLY TO DIVORCE..
BUT I JUST CAN NEVER DO IT...I CANT..CUZ MY HUSBAND CAME BEFORE AND WELL HE HAS BEEN REALLY KIND TO ME...
I CANNOT LEAVE ANYBODY FOR MY OWWN SELF...CANT BE THAT SELFISH..
GUESS I SHOULD JST LEAVE MY LOVER RIGHT???????
SO WAT DO U SAY????
2006-06-24 03:56:45 · answer #9 · answered by vini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
step back
wait
do not try to sway her opinion about you or your opponent....if she really loved you there would be no question, she'd jump to you and forget him
just stand silent, don't answer her calls, stay away from her for a week and see how you feel after that
2006-06-24 03:49:28 · answer #10 · answered by Cap'n Donna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋