Say if you got a girl pregnant...?

Question

and she was going to abort the baby. Do you think it would be justifiable (I know it would be illegal) for the father to kidnap the mother and keep her until she is to heavily pregnant to have an abortion?

Answer 1

Unfortunatly, she can get an abortion pretty late. You might be just delaying the inevidable. And then it makes it even worse.
If she is in her second trimester, even almost going into her third, where she even feels the baby moving around, punching and kicking, the abortion would be thousands more.
and the way they kill the baby is not very pretty. They basically rip it from limb to limb, and that is how it is killed, it bleeds to death while it's limbs are being torn off. (proof: testimony of Stenberg vs. Carhart). If they don't get that horrible fate, they are forced out with it's whole body dangling and kicking and while just it's head is still inside, the abortionist plunges a pair of scissors into it's skull to stab and make a hole, a tube is inserted in the hole and it's brains are sucked out.. that is how it dies. I wouldn't wish either death on my worst enemy. I wonder how nice the deaths of people who perform such acts of cruelty are in comparison.. hmm?

Answer 2

Obviously, the kidnapping part is ridiculous, however, I think that it is unfair for just the woman to be able to decide, unless there is an absent father (who then, if the child is born, would have to pay child support). If the mother doesn't want the baby, and the father does, the mother can still abort it? does this make sense? I dont think so. So say the mother who wanted the abortion was legally blocked from having one, gave birth and gave the father the child.. she still has parental rights and could decide to keep the baby for herself.

aren't women bitches?

But yes, I think it would be justifiable, as the man would want the baby and would love it etc. I don't think a child NEEDS a mother, as long is there is a solid female figure (like a grandmother, or aunt) in thier lives.

Answer 3

Absolutely not. She is the one that would have to suffer for 9 months and then the labour. My God, how on earth do you think up a question like this? Please don't tell me you are thinking of doing this! I know it's not particularly fair because obviously men don't get a say if a woman decides she is going to abort but there is nothing anyone can actually do about this unless medicine finds a way for men to suffer the agony of pregnancy and then the childbirth itself.
And, lets look at this another way, she wanted the baby and you didn't, would she be justified in kidnapping you to look after the child? No? Thought not!

Answer 4

The kidnap part is way wrong but I get what you are trying to say The way things are now the father of the unborn child has no say at all. That is something that should be changed but how? make it so that abortions require both the father and mother of unborn have to consent to abort the pregnancy except in cases of rape, incest or endangerment to mothers health sound like A 1/2 WAY GOOD IDEA TO ME

Answer 5

No! Everyone has a right to do with their body's what they wish. That does not mean i agree or disagree with abortion but it would not be right for someone to kidnap someone else and hold them against their will. While i do feel sympathy with fathers in this situation and i feel that maybe they should have some say in this as when a baby is born that they do not want they are still required to support it, so surely it works both ways.

Answer 6

No, that sort of action wouldn't be justified. It would be the action of a psychopath, which isn't be the ideal candidate for parenthood. The mother wouldn't have opted for an abortion if she'd wanted to keep the baby. What's the point of bringing an unwanted baby into the world. It would just cause misery for mother and child.

Answer 7

No. You cannot force anyone to go through the birth process or a caesarian. Not even if you are prepared to take 100% responsibility for the child for the rest of its life. You just don't have that much right over someone else.
Take more responsibility for contraception instead. Have a vasectomy. Try talking about these issues before you have sex with someone so at least you're both on the same track. Don't have sex with anyone who feels differently about abortion to you.

Answer 8

If I were pregnant wanting to abort and you kidnapped me until I was too pregnant, I would kill the child after giving birth to it.

I might even kill you too.

They would put me in jail for insanity.

I would tell the courts that I was a grown woman with a man who wanted to treat me like a child (thus the word "kidnap") and in return I treated him like a child. I took away the only thing that made him think he was an adult.

After doing that I still saw a boy in front of me so I killed him too.

If you believe your kidnapping scheme is somewhat justifiable, this is how it would be more so.

If I were her I would pretend like things were okay and when your guard was down, I would kill you both.

Answer 9

As certain traits are hereditary maybe she does not want a baby with these traits of the father. I think you have watching to much TV . How would you cope serving 25 years for kidnap and leave behind a girl that hates you and a child that will grow to hate you ????

Answer 10

No, it's not. The only thing you can do is try to get a court order stopping the abortion but you're going to have to prove that you're more than capable of raising this child on your own and even then, it's still her body that is carrying the child and the courts may not grant the stay simply on that fact alone.

Answer 11

No, two wrongs don't make right, I think the stress you would put her under would probably induce a miscarriage anyway. The real answer is Always use a condom if you don't want a baby, and make sure both of you do before planning it.