I've been having trouble making friends in my neighborhood, and I've lived here for about 30 years. I even tryed talking to people around different places like a jail, or a humane society. I don't see why no one likes me I'm a very nice person. I even shower twice a week. Is it me? Or is it just that I'm trying to make friends with smelly stuborn people? GUYS I REALLY NEED YOUR OPINION???? AND BE AS HONOST AS ABRAHAM LINCOLN!!!
I'M SICK OF BEING A LOSER!
2006-06-24 02:55:07 · 8 answers · asked by frenchy 316 1 in Pets ➔ Other - Pets
Why is this question in the pets category? You'd get better answers if you posted it somewhere else.
2006-06-24 02:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by ratboy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about shower EVERY day then make sure your home in the neighborhood is "glammed up"
weed your yard, plant a few pots of cheery flowers, make it look approachable. The neighbors might see you working in the yard and approach YOU.
Welcome new neighbors with a list of phone numbers for the best bakery in town, the stores with the best deals, good vets, doctors etc. They might not know these names & you've lived there 30 years... take it over with something small like some cookies.
Don't be a pest! Let people call you.
Have a 4th of July BBQ and invite neighbors & people you know.... invite kids in the neighborhood to decorate outside.
Don't think of yourself as a loser but you need to start thinking of yourself as a bit shy and work on making yourself over.
Small acts of kindness....
2006-06-24 10:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried going to church? Most churches tell people to "come as they are" because it's God who will change you and He loves you just as you are but He loves you too much to leave you the way that you are.
One tip though. You might want to start taking a shower every day instead of only twice a week. Unless you are different from almost every other human being by the end of a long hot day a shower is advisable.
2006-06-24 10:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by Martin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love yourself? If can do that everything will start to change. Find an organization or group that shares your interest. Don't be afraid to try new things.
2006-06-24 10:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by pinkicef99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it no one likes you... oh fyi shower more that could help
2006-06-24 10:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by cup cake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep looking.there is someone who likes whatever kind of pet you are.
2006-06-24 09:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self.okay.
2006-06-25 04:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by - Allison 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself
2006-06-24 09:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋