Is there sumting in the str8 male brain that ignites and suddenly makes him aware of the gorgeous guy on the opposite side of the dancefloor or room, even though his completely str8, do completely str8 guys sometimes think about doing the deed with other guys when tossing around the monster. Ive heard of the stereotypical 'you were born that way' and 'its your own decision' or even going as far as 'your possesed by a demon' I have seen a documentary on Discovery Channel that states that the 'hipotalamus hormone gland' in the front lobe of the brain of a gay guy is underdeveloped against the fully developed gland of a completely str8 guys. What turns a str8 guy gay? Could it be that he doesnt see himself as hot enought for girls and feel that he will never have a chance with a girl and then maybe revert to guys for love and attention. Could constent teasing and bullying at school create an unconscious gay persona leading to a guy thinking he might be gay.
PLS GIVE YR VIEWS ON THIS.
2006-06-24 02:25:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Women are able to admire other women without this happening; but culturally, men are not supposed to admire other men, unless it can be expressed in some macho way like "Nice guns, dude." Even on the occasions that men hug, they still hit each other (the three hit hug, facing away from each other).
So when a male sees something in another male that he thinks is attractive, he panics. "This is not how I am supposed to think! Something must be wrong with me!" Well... noooooo.
Even if he is gay, what's wrong with that (not to get all Seinfeld about it)? Many straight men have visions of what gay sex would be like, whether or not it rises to the level of fantasy. And, just because the thought has crossed their minds, they start to worry about being gay. Not to diminish their "suffering" but what difference does it really make?
Nothing "turns" a guy gay. Sexuality and attraction are actually not "fixed" traits... they can change over time. There is sort of a continuum from exclusively straight to exclusively gay and somehow asexuality figures into it. Some people will be exclusively one or the other for most of their lives and then become exclusively the other. Some go back and forth. Even social scientists who study sexuality have no idea why it happens, it just does.
Bullying may cause someone to question if others are seeing something that he or she does not see. However, they are not seeing into her or his heart, so they really don't know what's going on there.
And I would have to say that "not being hot enough" is nothing more than an excuse someone might put up on the way to accepting who and what they really are -- whatever that might be.
I believe some people would have difficulty accepting the idea that afectional or sexual orientation simply "happens." They would like for there to be a "cure" or a way of preventing homosexuality -- why? I don't know. Possibly because it shows that, although we would like to think of ourselves as superior in every way, we are still animals in some very reptilian-brain ways. After all, homosexual behavior -- and some exclusively homosexual relationships -- have been shown to occur in almost all animals.
2006-06-24 03:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by blueowlboy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL if A guy believed he was not good enough for a girl how could he possibly compete among gays, LOL
Gays who stereotypically only like pretty guys.
Stereotypical gays generally are not worried about finding someone to have children with so they are not worried about how much a guy makes they want to know that he is in good shape physically and that all his parts work right, and that he knows what to do in bed. Women on the other hand will take an ugly dude who may not be the best lover if he makes enough money or if he has traits like a good personality that might make him a good father and a good husband.
Mind you I am not talking about all gays but just the ones that are stereotypical.
2006-06-24 02:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, I believe if you're gay, you're gay. If you're str8, you're str8. You can't be *turned* gay or *turned* str8.
Second, some str8 people (so I've been told), sometimes have passing romantic thoughts about people of the same gender. But that's no cause for panic, it doesn't mean they're gay. Likewise, some people who are gay may have a passing romantic thought about people of the opposite gender---that doesn't mean they are str8. It only means they--we--are human and may find a certain quality in another person that attracts us in a small way, but doesn't mean that in any real world way we will (or should) actually hop in the sack with them.
2006-06-24 03:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by gmfo22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that he doesn't see himself as hot enough for girls and feel that he will never have a chance with a girl and then maybe revert to guys for love and attention?
I don't think so. Most men - even homely ones - think they can get the best looking girls. The gay men I've met have been gorgeous. Mostly I was left thinking - who wouldn't do that if they had the chance.
2006-06-24 02:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps gays were never straight to begin with. What's with interest over male gays anyway. Some men just arent attracted to women and can see clearly the superiority in the male form. Women arent anything special in the extreme despite the jew medias constant promotion of that myth. Why doesnt everyone find men extremely hot? Because they so obviously are. Is heterosexuality in men a mental disorder? It cetainly is sick. That's the real questions these carpet munching weirdos need to answer.
2006-06-25 00:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by homosceptic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a famous therapist that said everyone has some sort of homosexual tendencies. Whether or not a guy would "turn" and nail another dude, who knows? It depends on the guy and his insecurites, fears, and limits. Plus, I'd rather doubt a straight guy would turn for a gay guy, 2 straight guys sounds much more plausible.
2006-06-24 03:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a little bored with your sex life and you want to find something to excite you again. Many men think about doing new things in sex (anal sex for example). I think that except these thoughts, you have thought about doing other new exciting things in sex in the past. Gay sex is just one of them...don't worry about being a gay
2006-06-24 03:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good grief! I'm retired find another therapist
2006-06-24 02:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by Clyde 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
homosexuals is surely going to hell
2006-06-24 02:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋