How to avoid it, if so?
2006-06-24 02:24:40 · 12 answers · asked by Greeneyed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no. just make sure both parents are ther for the children dont make them feel like one is better than the other. it should be equal. both of you leave your problems aside when the kids are close.
2006-06-24 02:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that children of broken marriages will be fine if the couple takes the children into consideration during the breakup. Keep them informed and do not bad mouth the other parent. Both parents should stay in the children's lives completely. The parent that is not away should call them and even see them everyday if possible. The parents should not quarrel in front of the children over their differences and should always take the children into account. For example, how would they feel if we were to fight in front of them, how would they feel if we made this decision, etc. Doesn't matter the childs age. They are human and have feelings. Also, let them talk about how they feel about the separation. If necessary, then counseling is advised.
The children will be fine, if you can possibly make this an amicable separation. This will teach the children that dealing with hard situations in a respectful, mature way is the way to go.
Good luck.
2006-06-24 02:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probalby because they go back and forth from one parent 2 the other...or sometimes live with one and see the other very few times during the year.. if u have problems with ur marriage go 2 marriage counseling..do whatever u can to make it a good marriage..but if the parents are always fighting then it's time to end the relationship because staying together wont help it will just make it worse. hope this helps!! also make sure if u get a divorce that its not the kids fault and both parent still love the kids
2006-06-24 02:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Brittney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children do change the dynamics of a marriage; could be for the good or the bad you really don't know until it happens. My best friend was married for 10 yrs before having her twins, less than a year later after they were born she was filing for a divorce. Edit: You can't say absolutely not; children can and have changed many marriages, you should never have children in hopes of saving a marriage thats the worst reason ever.
2016-03-27 02:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children learn how to live their lives by watching their parents. Wheather or not a child is damaged by the breaking of a home REALLY depends on how the parents handle the situation. If you have 2 adults screaming at eachother, calling names, talking badly about eachother in front of the kid, or fighting over the kid, that's where the poor kid is going to have trouble. If you teach your child that.... some people just can't live together..or... mommy and daddy just don't love eachother anymore, but we both love you very much and we want you to be happy.... etc..... you'll end up with a child who has a grasp of how relationships work. Sometimes you're just happier apart, and your child needs to know that. Be civil though. Do what's best for the kid. When you want to scream obsinities at your spouse... don't... keep in mind that the kids are going to mimic you when they get into relationships later.
2006-06-24 02:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by El 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately yes. Children were designed by God to have a healthy Mother & Father. That's just the way it it..however a single parent (like me) can raise children alone. I don't know how many times I wished I would have loved to have a mother there for my daughters especially. When trouble would start over something I have feelings of being alone..not a good feeling..but I do understand what it's like to be single with children ..I had 3 to raise alone. I've often worried about what you are asking..but my children turned out fine...they all have healthy good relationships, went to college and are well adjusted. They are all christians with a strong walk with the Lord..and in that I'm most proud
2006-06-24 02:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There's children that come from families where the parents have a good marriage and yet that one child can cause more problems than 10 kids put together. Everyone is responsible for their own actions and people are gonna do what they're gonna do.
2006-06-24 02:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think children from broken marriages do not have troubled relations because my mom and dad divorced when i was 3 and i have been happily married for 10 years now. the children if old enough when you divorced should learn from your mistakes and try not to make the same ones.
2006-06-24 02:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by penn state fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time YES. As children learn from thier parents they see how to interact with the other sex. If the father was hurtful to thier mother the boys will treat women the same way. If the mother is bad the daughter will most likely follow in her shadow. The only way to break the cycle is to get help.
2006-06-24 02:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it depends on the situation, if both parents does'nt really and then it will probably end like that. If both parents are there to support the kids and have both good relationship I think the kids will understand and they will be more careful to have a relationship that will not end up the same.
Both parents needs to be honest and have time for the kids even they have their separate lives. Openness and good communication is needed.
2006-06-24 02:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are and it's not just about troubled relations. It's troubles and problems with everything. Do your research online.
The best thing to do is to work on your marriage if you can save it and if you can not look into physical shared custody.
2006-06-24 02:31:22 · answer #11 · answered by dean_moriarty00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋