i heard when you have sex for your first time hurts MORE if you do it when you're older?

Question

i heard this...and im wondering IS IT TRUE? because i wanna wait til marriage (im 15) but people tell me that if you lose it when you're older...it HURTS LIKE HELL....MORE than it'll hurt NOW or in your teenage years and i heard it hurts ALOT when you're a teenager...so IMAGINE what it'll be like when i'm an adult

cuz they said that as you grow older...your vagina gets TIGHTER! is it true?

Answer 1

No thats not exactly true. What's more likely is that men continue to grow and the penis will continue to grow, which means something larger penetrating you! Also, at this age, your body isn't done maturing and you probably are not yet capable or producing the lubrication needed to make things go smoothly - so to speak, you will be as an adult. BUT! Sex should NEVER hurt! If it does, you're not ready and things are being rushed! Definately wait until you are older!! Guys your age don't know what they're doing and even if it doesnt hurt, its no fun and 99% of the time not pleasurable! Its not worth the loss of your virginity and the comprimise of your morals!

When your married, or at least in a loving committed adult relationship he will want to take the time to make sure you are ready and enjoying yourself and your body will be better prepared.

Answer 2

Honestly, it sounds like this idea was planted by someone who is trying to talk you into sex sooner than later or by a well-meaning friend who was successfully talked into it and then has held onto that rationalization to avoid feelings of guilt/regret.

Pain during intercourse would be increased by several things. Yes the hymen is a thin membrane that makes the vaginal opening smaller, but is meant to be just an increased barrier to avoid infection. Now first think about that, before you go and get rid of it.

Secondly, if you are not physically ready for intercourse, you vaginal will probably be dry and not lubricated, because that often requires one to be "turned on" first. If you know that you don't want chilren yet AND you are not turned on, why on earth are you considering sex? Is it friends, the guy, or expectations from yourself? Think about it.

Lastly, if you are not emotionally ready for sex, several things can happen. Physically, you may tighten up. Ouch, not nice and not a nice memory. Secondly, the guy you think you're trying to impress will feel guilty for this sex, because everyone has a "bull(crap) antennae." He'll know he did wrong, feel guilty, and will avoid you afterward so as not to remind him of this guilt/wrongdoing.

So think... hmm... dry, tight, tearing membrane, lose hottie? or.... pleasure, wet, relaxed, deeper relationship? wait till your ready and keeps your hopes low, so you will be pleasantly surprised. Frankly, it'll get better and many women can't orgasm until their early twenties anyway.

Tighter as you get older? Contrary to popular belief, the more sex you have, the tighter you will get because, if you are an active participant, you will basically have a vagina workout and those muscles will increase in size, plump up, creating a smaller space and a happier partner.

Answer 3

No, it's not true ...it's actually just the opposite. It will be a much better first experience for you if you wait like you planned. (1) At 15, you haven't completely gone through puberty so your body is still in preparation. As an adult woman, your body will be better prepared and ready for that first time. With that said, that doesn't mean it will be painless but it will be slightly less painful. I think its great youre going to wait until youre married to have sex. And if that's what you really want to do, don't let anybody, any friends or boyfriends pressure you to do otherwise.

Answer 4

It hurts the first time no matter what but with good lubrication it gets better. Wait until you fall madly in love with someone and get married to have sex. He will help you thru any pain. Each time after that it gets better and better.

Answer 5

Take your time. Don't be in a hurry. When you get older it is even easier. There may be no so much pain like just what i had experience. I got married and had sex when i was almost 30 yrs. old.

Answer 6

The pain is better to be handled wen u are older, the person who told u that, jst wants to get into ure pants.

The breaking of the hymen is wat causes the initial pain, thats the termanology used to hold ure virginity, although horse riding and other activities can tear it too.

Wait until marriage, u wont regret it.

use K-Y jelly for lubrication if u are dry or would like it to be as painless as posible.

Answer 7

That't not true. No matter what age you're in, if your partner is rough it will gonna always hurt. And beside it's really not a pain but pressure and once it's in you'll enjoy and get addicted to it.

Answer 8

You must not search for an excuse if you like your pu.ssy to be ploughed by a male. It is absolutely incorrect to say that the hymen gets stiff when you grow old. The reality is that when a girl gets old (around 20 years), her pus.sy gets adapted to accept the male organ. However, making sex depends on one's own mind frame. If you like to make sex at an age of 15, you are most welcome.

Answer 9

It hurts no matter whether you're older or younger. It also depends on your pain tolerance too and the size of your partner. And when you do it, make sure you are protected.

Answer 10

No problem at all. There would be some pain but simultaneously it gives much joys... pleasures and the condition of happiness which cannot be described in words. Have it and feel it.