2006-06-24 00:56:21 · 14 answers · asked by Miss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sex is an important part of a relationship and things go badly quickly when its not there. Perhaps you should view it this way....if you know that sex is important and needed, why are you not granting it? If you arent granting it, it could be viewed that you are the one hurting the relationship and forcing your lover to leave and have his needs met elsewhere. Sometimes we have to see things from the other person's perspective...that makes us less selfish.
2006-06-24 01:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well! it all depends on the mutual understanding. If someone just leaves then it is good because then you know real Love was not there, and there was just sexual lust.
This can be a good test to check the partner. Just show them you will not allow sex in the relationship. If they stay GREAT..give them everything, if they go away GOOD for you..like the idea??
2006-06-24 02:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by salcsan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long a particular spouse has had to go without, doesn't it? I've been waiting 13 years for a change of heart from my husband, but none seems to be forthcoming. If you don't think that hurts me, think again. Sex and intimacy are very important in a marriage; without it, how can there be anything else?
2006-06-24 01:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple - sex is the reason for the relationship, believe it. Do you think guys would chase women if there was no potential for sex? Of course not, we'd just hang with our buddies. I don't know why this is so hard to grasp for most women - we truly have little to no interest in you unless there's a sexual component to the relationship.
2006-06-24 07:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by jerryg1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha,sex is important and guys use it as a grant for there gals. its a gift from god but its as to be between two so most popi leave there lovers if its not granted to them.men use it as a way to get to know there lovers.
2006-06-24 01:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by sexybabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people regard sex as a very important part of love, it invokes intimacy emotionally and phsyically. Sex is a drive and urge that is stronger in some than others and simply, if they are not satisfying that drive....it leads to great frustration. Especially if they can not satisfy that drive with the one they love...it can be heartbreaking.
2006-06-24 01:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by curiosity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre not having sex, how the heck can you be "lovers"??
And wow, Jerry 1212 you need to do some growing up
2006-06-30 15:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some people, you would be just another "bed partner". Before you sleep with someone, ask them to take an H.I.V., and other V.D. tests, If they (he/she) refuses, they are after the sex. if they agree to take the tests then you've got yourself someone who is interested in you as a "whole person", not just a bed buddy.
2006-06-24 01:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by john's brat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cant wait a few months, hes a loser, and if you marry such a person, it will be over in 3 months.
Find a more mature person, fck love. get something that works. after you get over him, you will wonder what the fck attracted you to him in the first place
2006-06-24 01:10:13 · answer #9 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its simple coz that came to u just for sex
when he realised he is not going to get it than he wants to try for some one else
so leaves u and go for other
so keep paitence and wait for real love
2006-06-24 01:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by snake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋