Have you ever hated your best friend?

Question

I can't stand her...I don't know why...please help!

Answer 1

Yes to much, there are moments l hate my best friend female. Sometimes she is jelous for me, she is ungry why l get out so much with my boyfriend. Yes sometimes l really hate her

Answer 2

Yes I have, right now! We haven't spoken since April, and its now almost July! Alot happened to pull us apart! We were so close, we'd be like together every waking moments if we didn't have a boyfriend. But things changed, I went back to school to persue and further my studies. I guess some people get jealous of little things as in studies taking the place of them, how lame I swear. Plus I needed some time apart, and now I am not even missing her being apart of my life, after trying to organise a one night stand. When clearly I wasn't wanting a boyfriend then and there, so it all stuffed up haven't spoken to her since, only her younger sibling on the net once or twice.

Answer 3

It is rather an oxymoron. But when I did, I was immature by keeping a friend that I really didn't respect but did not want the repurcussions of not being her friend. For example, we lived so close and were mates forever and when I realised we grew apart and that she and I had different morals, she made my skin crawl. I was selfish, insecure and pathetic for not breaking the friendship off, but we know what we know at that time. Try and figure out what it is about her that angers YOU. That's a start. Good luck

Answer 4

The person in question is either;
1 Not actually your best friend, merely the person you hang around with or.
2. Has a defect which you notice and this defect has monopolised your view of the person. Look at their qualities, if you can not find any, read 1 above

Answer 5

i had a massive fight wit ma bestfriend in which she broke her bestfriend wit me. that lead me to change my school, my friends etc as i left tht country cos ma mom got another job in England however i was not upset cos i was full of anger tht time. it has been six years and we never talked to each other ever since. in dis six years period i was only really angry for the first two years. i suppose i liked her to much to hate her. however, thinkin tht she broke her friendship wit me for sumthing i never did in ma life does makes me angry but... i believe in moving on in life and so i have moved on and i think so shud u.

if u can't stand her thn tht means u never liked her in the first place or maybe the reason y u liked her is not there anymore. or the finally reason y u might hate her could be because maybe u like sumone else as ur bestfriend and maybe u r comparing both of them and maybe u feel tht the other person has more things in common wit u thn ur current bestfriend. i suppose if u hate her i think u shud let her know tht the friendship is not working out the way u hoped or maybe u shud talk to ur bestfriend and if tht doesn't work thn maybe u shud makes new bestfriend and move on in life, as life is too short to worry about simple things.

Answer 6

yes i hate my best friend right now he's become really annoying since he found a new girlfriend and i cant stand him, but i think if u just spend a little time away from your friend you'll find that u probally dont hate her at all

Answer 7

yes many of times but as you call her your best friend you can not say it if you do not feel it !! depending on what it is that you hate her for is another thing mine sleep with my bf at the time ( x now ) i hated her for every think in the world and i told her if he did it to me he would do it to her and sure enough he did i was still mad at her but since then we have worked it out and we are closer friends then ever !! ( i still worry she will try it with my new partner but she is my friend and i trust her )

Answer 8

I know what you mean, I hated my best mate once, because he seemed to be so much cooler than me and better at everything. I got over it by spending less time with him, finding other friends and hanging around with people who thought I was cool.

Answer 9

I have hated my best friend... As she told e almost e whole skul untrue stories bout me... I couldn't stand her but still talk 2 her personally... Sometimes its good if u talk 2 her personally n sort things out.. It'll help

Answer 10

you're not best friends than if you hate her. maybe you just need some time apart. decide what it is you dislike so much about her and maybe talk to her. is it something that can be fixed or do you just rather spend your time with someone else. just be honest and upfront.