its about ur thinking
2006-06-24 00:24:45 · 14 answers · asked by som 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
constructive yes, blaming or negative to hurt them , then NO
2006-06-24 00:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by donnango 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, if it is done with the right spirit and intent.
I had a large friend who was shopping for a dress to wear to a wedding. She tried on this orange thing and asked her husband what he thought of it......he said, "It looks good, honey."
That is when I came upon them and said, "Hi." She then asked me how it looked and I said, "Honestly, it makes you look kind of like a pumpkin. I really don't think you should get that dress."
She was grateful to know the truth, but only because she knew I was trying to spare her ridicule. If she thought I was making fun of her, it would have just hurt.
Also, if you are trying to give constructive criticism, do it privately--not where a lot of other people can listen in, because that would only embarass them.
I hope I have helped.
2006-06-24 07:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jill W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things to remember:
1. Criticize the ACTION and not the person.
2. Praise in public, criticize in private.
2006-06-24 07:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Criticism, like anything else, is neither good nor bad.
How you apply it is what makes the difference.
Be tactful, make sure your good intentions are known and, preferably, do it quietly and privately so you don't hurt the person's pride.
Unfortunately, there will still be those who, after being bombarded by tons of negative and soul-crushing criticism, will still be offended.
2006-06-24 07:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by Studier Alpha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is very bad habbit to critisize someone is similarly like to insult someone in indirect way.
2006-06-24 07:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by sharjish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you leave it open as to let them do the same to you....
I would say to you...use a dictionary. Hit the check spell check button. You really need to stay in school and learn how to spell.
2006-06-24 07:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 tell u, if u criticise some1, he/she will get hurt..
Try not 2 anyway.. Just joke with em
2006-06-24 07:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I feel its not good
2006-06-24 07:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by hs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should take the time to improve your own flaws.(unless you employ or supervise them to help improve their performance)
2006-06-24 07:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Soul Pole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Think before you act.
2006-06-24 07:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋