In the past couple decades I used to live two steps ahead, and it helped me get ahead in the world. But as I got into middle age I found that I was living too guarded, not sharing enough of myself with the world, was wound up too tight, and that I needed to get back to my younger days and try out new things just for the sheer sake of change.
These days I live one step at a time. I more into diversion, novelty, being expansive and keeping things light and fun with the people around me, and laughing off the screw-ups, failures, and losses. I don't worry about what's going to happen in a year or even next week. I abide by the rules of the road and let the system work for me rather than trying to beat the system. Overall, this attitude seems to be working a lot better for me. I get along with people better, good things come my way easier, and I like my life better.
Naturally, it's easy to live one step at a time these days in my middle age now that I'm comfortably off. It would have been more of a stretch ten or twenty years ago when I was still trying to scratch out a place for myself in the world and get my piece of the pie. So I guess I did what I had to do.
I guess you do whatever works for you.
2006-06-29 00:41:45
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answered by Jim R 3
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look ahead and dont worry about the last step u took. one step forward at a time, keeping in mind that u have a next step to take.
take it as it comes and try to make the best of it. think positive.
2006-06-24 00:25:43
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answered by autumn crocus 2
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One step at a time wishing I was two step ahead, but here I am two steps behind.
2006-06-24 00:14:28
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answered by Anonymous
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It's life, not treasure-hunting. We can't just say, I'd take three steps ahead then one step to the right, look for some stupid stone to dig under...
I am happy with every step I have taken, until now. And to answer you, it varies.
2006-06-24 00:14:26
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answered by bla_bla_bla 2
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Ok, here is the code:KK2, Auto Tom, Stacy R, bla bla bla, and blind-wood-c They became your code. 5 great people from around the world answered you. Love yourself, and love life. Ron
2006-06-24 00:27:51
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answered by Anonymous
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when ever u single u dont need to take two steps jsut take one step
thats enough
2006-06-24 00:18:13
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answered by snake 3
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i live it one step at a time, keepin it real is an art
2006-06-24 00:11:49
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answered by Anonymous
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Do unto others as you would have done to you. I think we have forgotten that policy.
2006-06-24 00:13:42
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answered by Stacy R 6
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DON'T TRY TO CHANGE CIRCUMSTANCES..ACCEPT IT AS IT IS OR TRY TO CHANGE YOUR SELF...THIS WILL MAKE LIFE MUCH MORE COMFORTABLE
2006-06-24 00:21:20
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answered by donia f 4
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no,one
let me be and i will be happy
2006-06-24 00:11:18
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answered by qwq 5
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