2006-06-24 00:05:44 · 13 answers · asked by raworrare3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well there is nothing wrong with going with ur feelings except it shows u don't have a healthy personality..But life is short & i m sure its not worth it to avoid any one that u already know .Avoiding people that u know causes a lot of discomfort to urself & d other person.Cheers!
2006-07-05 06:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by D33P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really loved one of my teachers in highschool he was just 23 years old and fresh out of college and He had all the qualities of the man I wanted he was intelligent, had a sense of humor, he Loved the Lord and put him first in his life. I love him very much I still do to this day however I would never undermine his integrity or even mention this becuase It would have been inappropraite as him being a Teacher and me being a student. I avoided telling him and I know it is one of the biggest regrets of my life however I know I did the right thing to preserve his integrity. He is now married and has children of his own and Is a successful with a Doctorate degree I think he teaches at a Weslean Uinversity In IOWA in the biology dept. I am so happy for him having such a successful life.
2006-06-24 07:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean, avoiding someone because the way you feel about them is bad, negative, vengeful, hurtful? Or, avoiding them because you have intense love, attraction or whatever, for them?
If it is a relation that couldn't possibly work, or remotley start, they hey, try to go on to someone else or something else. I hear jogging is suppose to be good for the soul.
2006-06-24 07:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by cautiouscautious2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. I try to avoid people I don't feel comfortable around. I don't go out of my way to avoid them.
2006-06-24 07:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be up front and tell them the truth. They'll be upset at first, but they'll respect you for it later. Remember, a cut from a surgeons sharp scalpel is by far less painful than a cut from on old jagged rusty knife.
2006-06-24 07:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by TCBgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes probably. I think you should go out and explain your feelings to that person and fix up whatever problem it is. I mean, you can't go hiding from that person forever?! Especially if you knew tham formerly quite well. Good Luck!!! ;)
2006-06-24 07:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by trishashastri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we have enough worries in our life to TRY to accommodate ourselves to people who we dont feel good about' em .... I think its Right thing.. And I personally prefer to avoid those who I don't like'em..
2006-06-24 07:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by mmmkkkk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool question...
I avoided him..
but then he dated a close friend of mine..
so yea.. its wrong to avoid..
2006-06-24 08:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if avoiding him will simplify things then i dont c anything wrong w/that
2006-06-24 07:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong. Sticking around the people who annoy you, will only make you more angry.
2006-06-24 07:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋