i am fourteen and my BF propsed and i said yes am i rushing am i to young
2006-06-23 22:33:00 · 11 answers · asked by heartbreaker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmm, I would wait to get married. Doesn't mean you still can't date this guy. beside I'll bet anything your parents would never let you get married at this age. You are really young still, so whats the rush? If your still together in like 5 or 6 years, props to you and I wish you the best.
If it helps you any, I met my fiance when I was 14, and I knew in a year that we had a great relationship. BUT, I'm 18 now, and we're only just engaged after nearly 4 years together (July 27th <3). I'm in no hurry to marry, becuase the piece of paper doesn't change how we feel. And I want a nice wedding, and I still have a lot of saving to do! ~.^ good luck!
2006-06-23 22:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Cerrah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sue that 10 years from now you will not find a wonderful man who makes this guy look pathetic? Do you even know what you NEED from a husband (money, leadership)? Do you know what your duties will be in this relationship? I say wait until your are at least 18, 20 is better. I wish all kids today could get married at 14 or 16 and enjoy the bliss. But you have to KNOW a lot of information before you can start a new home.
2006-06-24 15:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by Broadcaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!! your rushing, and you are to young, and if you get married you will regret it later down the road to life. you must live out your teenage years, because you have so much to look forward to, and they can be the best years, don't get married so young, explore life and see where it takes you, give yourself some time and if he really loves you he will understand, you two can do this together and see.
2006-06-24 06:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by jenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you're too young. Enjoy life now while you can and later down the road if you and your bf are still together. Then do it.
2006-06-24 06:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. At 14 you are just learning how to keep yourself clean. Marriage is too big of a step. Wait awhile.
2006-06-24 05:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to judge or anything but you are 14 hun....you should be exploring life before you commit to anything or anyone..there is so much out there to see and do!I'd think twice before you actually marry your bf,no matter how much you love him!
2006-06-24 05:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by marjoleindnl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your to young. You should wait to do this when your out of school.
2006-06-24 09:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finish school. hang out with your friends, learn who you are and i think 14 is way to young to have a boyfriend. I think you need to talk to your parents about this.
2006-06-24 13:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are too young, please explore life before settling down. You do not want to regret any decisions made in your youth. If it was meant to be it will be.
2006-06-24 06:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life, so many twists and turns,
to the channels of life we are thrust.
Good luck.
2006-06-24 06:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋