Does it mean I don't love him any more? Or am offended at something? I dream of doing this with other guys but he is always very good in bed. I just don't know why I don't want to do this with him :( .
2006-06-23 22:15:24 · 9 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there is two possible situations here...
1. you are just a bit bored with the same guy... in which case you could try different things to spice things up or look at other avenues you could both gain sexual pleasure, such as joint masturbation, oral sex etc.
or 2. you are having doubts about your current relationship and it would be best to move on... be sure of this before you make the decision to move on or eventually act on your dreams.
2006-06-23 23:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. It usually never turns around where you are going to want him again. I have experienced that a few times you grew out of love with him. Try and be nice about it so maybe you can remain friends. That is very hard to do but better than hating each other which will happen if you guys stay together
2006-06-23 22:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 years, and alot of times i don't have urges to have sex for like a week, but then when we finally do something I'm thinking to myself why don't i want to do this more ofton. But..if your having dreams and thoughts of sex with other guys that probably means you are bored with him and want to move on or try something different. so maybe you should give it a little time and if you still feel the same way move on to what ever makes you happy.
2006-06-24 00:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by korie v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't. BUT You can most likely expect you will need a new boyfriend. I am not sure the present one will put up with NO SEX.
2006-06-23 22:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u are young, and want to have fun that u didnt have a chance to have before u met him
2006-06-23 22:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, in the long run you will both be better off.
2006-06-23 22:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by Not Tellin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are the only person who can answer that question... for me maybe you dont enjoy anymore being with him... or maybe you dont love him anymore... the best answer for your question can be found in yourself... ask your self why?
2006-06-23 22:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by caLai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. women can fell at way sometimes. don't worry but talk him
2006-06-23 22:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by eliaydin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ME
2006-06-24 02:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋