2006-06-23 20:46:09 · 5 answers · asked by gela_jap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When someone is angry, usually when it is for a long time, it is when they have internal struggles. There is no need for finding the reason. That comes later. Just give her Love. Give her a comforting hug, and tell her that you care about her greatly. Make sure she knows that whenever she wants to talk, that you will be waiting for her. Waiting to listen. You must let her trust you. So be in a loving manner as long as you can. This will help greatly. And when she wants to talk, she will. But keep in mind, if it is deep, the longer it will take. So make sure you have plenty of patience! Cheers!
2006-06-23 20:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the thing to do is give them space especially when they are angry. When they have cooled down then try and talk to them ,if you try and talk when they are angry they might say things they don't mean. If that person is angry all the don't always think it's your fault maybe it's them maybe they need counseling or anger management.Or it could be that maybe that person does'nt want your help and there is nothing you can but accept it and move on or stay by there side & support them.
2006-06-23 20:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Debra G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can try to sit down and talk to her...but more than likely if you find the reason why...you'll feel more like a therapist and it can be a long and exhausting haul especially if it's deep rooted issues that may never change. She has issues, let her deal with it. I'd move on, I wouldn't want to be her unsuccessful savior.
Or either it could be worse...she just may have a angry temperment and will always be like that till her dying day.
2006-06-23 21:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by SusaJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... try to calm her down first. Take her for a walk in the park or something relaxing and then ask her what's wrong but don't push to much if she doesn't want to answer. It could take a few days but eventualy she will tell you.
2006-06-23 20:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Rohelma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude.....if you were my best bud I would tell you to leave her alone and have her come to you for a while. Nothing a chick hates more than a whiny guy asking "what's wrong....what's wrong". Ignore her.....it'll drive her crazy...in all the right ways. And if not...your probly done anyway.
2006-06-23 20:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by tjcsonofallnations 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋