2006-06-23 20:06:23 · 7 answers · asked by Alex P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Start by doing things that will impress YOU and then just see what happens (become a mentor, paint something really cool or write out your goals for the next 5 years, be nice to someone that can give you nothing in return, or accomplish something important at work....)
I think once you start to gain confidence in yourself and earning a higher self-esteem (as you continue to impress YOURSELF with the way you are living your life), then you will attract quality people that you choose to be friends with and you won't know if they are dependale until you need them.. but guess what? If that time comes you will also be more independent and be just fine with or without friends.
Sounds kinda cheesy, I know, but seriously you have put out effort -- more and more every day -- to become the kind of person you will be proud of and who is not worried about friends. big hug :)
2006-06-23 20:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by Finnale 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where are you looking for friends?
If someone is a flake off at work, always talking instead of doing their job, probably they wouldn't be a responsible friend either.
Dependable people might not always seem like the coolest people and might not always be the ones doing the most exciting things. They would probably be people who go to work and pay their bills, take their kids to sports practise and walk the dog.
2006-06-24 03:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good dependable friendâ¥
2006-06-24 03:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by bamahotT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start within and work your way out. Don't let yourself be used and abuse by friends and don't abuse and use friends. What goes around comes around. don't run and tell every detail to everyone when it is supposed to be between friends. If they want everyone to know let them be the one to tell.
2006-06-24 03:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by charleedude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reciprocity and compatibility are two things which make your frienship stable and dependable.
2006-06-24 03:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by fmt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey babe,jus go up to them,anyone..be confident in your self and relax and be urself,theres no use not being urself and makin friends that dnt kno the real u..
2006-06-24 03:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by angel_suzi13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good friends are made by good realations, with better understanding, and also in frendship u need to trust on ur friend.
2006-06-24 04:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋