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Wanting to go to bed with someone has NOTHING to do with whether they like you or not. They want to use you, not like you. You are very young to be worrying about this nonsense.

2006-06-23 20:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

When he or she goes out of thier way for you. Yes, some people will say no he is just trying to game you, but I will give you an example to show this is wrong.

Example:
If you were tired on the day of the Superbowl and needed somebody to cook for you (even though he loves the Superbowl he would come over and miss it).

I'm going to tell you when it should be a safe bet to go to the "next step"

1. You should not go into that step until you truelly know that person.

2. He should do at least 1 thing against himself for you. (like my Superbowl story). Since you know him you should know if it is true or a lie. For example if he says he is giving something up it doesn't always mean he is.

3. last but not least; you should be wanting to. Not feeling like your forced.

2006-06-23 20:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Actually, it’s pretty simple. Deep inside the heart of every man is a secret wish to be trusted. How many times have men said to their wives, “If you would just trust me.” Many men wonder why it seems so difficult for their wives to do something so seemingly simple. The answer stems from the physiological differences between the sexes.

It begins at birth when little boys are given a distinct physical advantage over little girls by having higher levels of testosterone. With testosterone comes the physical strength to both defend themselves from danger and/or run away from a threat. Most little girls don’t have that ability. They don’t have the strength to defend themselves in a physically fight when they feel threatened. If a boy trusts someone who in turn hurts them, they can always defend themselves physically (or try to). Little girls don’t have that physical option of power. Since a person can only trust from a position of strength, those same little girls will grow up into women who naturally have a more difficult time “trusting” when they feel vulnerable.

So men, when you ask the woman of your choice to simply “trust you,” it’s not that she can’t, she’s just more vulnerable than you. If you want her to trust you, she needs something that will help develop that trust.

Perhaps even a tool or gesture that she can “count on ” until that trust with you is established. Thankfully this tool already exist and is known every woman. What cultivates trust in a woman is a man who consistently keeps his word. Making a promise is meaningless if there is no follow through.

A woman needs to SEE her man fulfill his promises because seeing is always more powerful than hearing. Allow me to illustrate. Imagine someone told you that I was the meanest person they had ever met. For months all you heard was how terrible I treated my family and friends. Then one day you met me and during the course of our meeting you begin to notice that I didn’t seem to be as horrible as you were led to believe. I actually appeared to be rather pleasant. Would you change your entire opinion about me from one visit? Probably not! However, if you saw me respond consistently with kindness and humility over a period of weeks, your opinion of me would begin to change. A paradox has just been established. The kindness you have seen in me for the last few weeks does not match what you have heard about me. All the rumors of how mean I am begin to fade into darkness because of my consistent actions. Over time what you see will replace most if not all of your concerns about my character.

Men, when the woman you love sees your words lining up with your actions, trust will naturally follow. When you don’t keep your word it causes your wife/girlfriend to become fearful. From her perspective, she has entrusted you with her Heart and WANTS to trust you. She simply needs your help in giving you what you want.

2006-06-23 20:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by JAGUAR 1 · 0 0

If you're asking the question then don't go to bed with that person you will know when it's right or you're really, really horny

2006-06-23 20:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by TBor ROCKS 3 · 0 0

No, that means they don't really like you. Someone really likes you when he finds you interesting enough to do other things with you and get to know you and your personality.

2006-06-23 20:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 0 0

Hello there...the answer is simple...he likes you - otherwise he wouldn't have expressed his desire to sleep with you. But does he love or respect you? I don't think so. I do hope you have your brain housed in your head - not in your panty.

2006-06-23 20:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0 0

its not really love,its just lust.think about it carefully

2006-06-24 00:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by love 1 · 0 0

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