My husbands name is udai he is not sure of his DOB but celebrates on 22 Oct 1974. Though he is attached to my daughter but he thinks that i dont deserve him, since iam not beautiful . he think he deserve far better than me. he never ake me out since he feel ashamed of me. Iam deppressed
2006-06-23 19:35:10 · 11 answers · asked by Vandana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi Vandana,
Quite a sad position to be in.
anyways, first things first, forget about this rubbish astrology stuff. It has nothing to do with love or relationship.
Do keep in mind that you cannot clap with one hand.
About being beautiful, i must say
'do u yourself consider yourself beautiful?'
well no one can have respect for you, if you don't have 'self-respect'
So,
1. Have a very high regard for yourself.
2. Get a change in wardrobe, add some colors, frills, sexy outfits.
3. Go for a makeover, mainly hairs.
4. Way to Man's heart is thru is stomach. make sure you cook some new and exotic dishes. (internet can help you, or join some cookery classes)
5. If possible, tell him that you love him, atleast couple of times a day (important times)
hope this will make you more beautiful and deserving.
if not write back.
Cheers,
Gyaan Guru
2006-06-23 20:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by Gyaan Guru 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey you and i have the same birthday i was born on June11th 1990.. look think you and your husband should sit down and have a serious talk, maybe with the help of a preofessional that will help you put aside your differences. and if this man thinks you are not good enough for him thaen you maybe he doesnt deserve u at all... sometimes the best solution is to be apart. The one thing you seem to have in common is your love for your daughter... if that is the only thing that is keeping u together, maybe you could make an arrangement where you would both get to spend time with your daughter and she could be with both of you and not feel like her family is broken. Best of luck to you
2006-06-24 00:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by hedZy ♀ The Dancing Banana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he the father of your daughter? Not that it matters. You know you are beautiful, I can tell by the way you phrased your question. You have let him bring you down too long. Put your baby first, but in a verbal abusive relationship, I would bet you two would be better off without him. Stay true to yourself. You deserve better.
2006-06-23 19:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your husband feels that way. Has he TOLD you that He thinks all this, or are you assuming?
Find out if there is any relations going on between your husband and your daughter beyond the natural. I realize you are depressed and are having problems. I hate to bring up a possible reason for this closeness....can it be incest..
Realizing that this may completely shatter you, it may give you legal recourse to in dealing with the depression issue.
2006-06-23 19:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by nemesis60145 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, U wanted to be a doctor, but u finally ended with simple greduation, u r not good in ur studies. Memory is week and concentration is not there. late marriage indication is there. U may go for a love marriage. u gote some good response regarding ur marriage in Dec- jan07. Now u will get proposels in jan- april 08. If this not work then u may go for a sudden love marriage in jan 09. The hubby will be a businessman, handsome , may be much closer to ur family and younger then u. Good luck Ashok May be ur father is not with u , and u doing job for the family.
2016-03-27 02:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must be the birthday's mine is also 6-11 and my hubby's is 10-21 and well our marriage is slowly falling apart, but if i were you and my husband ever told me he could do better and was ashamed of me, i would first knock his teeth down his throat and then pack my bags and walk out the door.
2006-06-24 03:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by mrstlane69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age has nothing to do with it..don't lose your self confidence..you must have been beautiful for him to marry so you cannot be un attractive..he sounds full of himself...selfish..i cant tell you to leave..but if he is cheating for someone he thinks is hotter than you, then get out..it is better to feel happy alone than to feel unwanted in a lonely marriage..i feel for you..good luck..keep your head up....
2006-06-23 19:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your date and time of birth have ANYTHING to do with your marriage?
2006-06-23 19:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that was not nice, and since he deserves better, u are stopping the sex with him
2006-06-23 22:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont u contact me instead.i can give u a nice time.
2006-06-25 03:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋