Well we been together for quiet a while. His nice, sweet, and cool. But it's just that I don't want to go out with him. He told me he Loves me more than a friend. But I just Like as a friend. That's all. He asked me out more than 5 times and I said No. So I finally said Yes to him. I'm not sure if I should stay with him or break up with him. Now that, he told me he loves me it's hard for me to break-up with him now. What should I do?
2006-06-23 19:30:37 · 12 answers · asked by Undecidable2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You probably dont need a boyfriend right now. Why not tell him that maybe you can get together nx year.
2006-06-23 19:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a try He may not be your type but he maybe what you need cause i bet you your type is only out to hurt you and leave you high and dry. But this man is going to treat you like you should be but he just aint your type?? Come On grow up looks aint everything people! Style aint nothing that can't be changed!! Give him a try and maybe after a couple of months you don't see yourself fallin in love or just caring about him then leave. But rebound to the man that is your type an see how fast you be longing for that man that wasn't your type Mr. Nice Guy!!
2006-06-24 02:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by Niinnaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you somehow manage to overcome your current problem, the probability that the same question will pop up in your head again (and again) is very high. So you can either prolong what you are currently having and postpone the inevitable or just break up now.
2006-06-24 02:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Palmer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you went out with him because of pity.In this case tell him exactly this:
"I'm sorry but I've just fallen out of love with you.We have to end it now and start seeing other people.But I know of many, many girls that think you're hot and I'm sure you'll get a girlfriend soon."
Then later if you find that you really did love him just tell him this:
"I made the Biggest mistake of my life when I broke up with you.You are the prettiest, nicest, charmingest boy I've ever met and I would like to get back together with you."
(Mess around with the words to them and change the wording to your liking.)
But I know this very well.It's happened to me a lot(from your point of view and from his.) and I'd like for it to stop in the world.If someone doesn't like another that likes them just say no.It may be hard but they'll understand.Learn from your mistakes and they'll sometimes learn from theirs.
2006-06-28 23:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the only reason you went out with him was because he was persistant into going out with you and you really don't have feelings for him besides being friends, you should break up with him. You shouldn't have to go out with someone that you don't have feelings for. You should tell him that you don't like him as much as he likes you and tell him that you should only be friends. Hope you make the right choice.
2006-06-24 02:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him now before you hurt him more. The deeper he gets in, the worse it's going to feel when you finally break up with him later, or worse, cheat on him. Just move on. It will be better for both of you. Also, don't use him for support when you are down. Just walk away.
2006-06-24 02:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by spudric13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the problem? if he's a nice guy and u like him? and if u dont like him. just tell him that and break off.
2006-06-24 02:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by Manish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear,u must take care of one who loves u.its unfortunate that we search for those whom we love but being loved is a feeling that gives u space to breath and reason to live.
2006-06-24 03:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, end it now before he starts shaving your initials in his chest hairs.
2006-06-24 02:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by Scottie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him NOW before he gets too involved.
2006-06-24 02:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋