Why does it seem that no matter how a woman looks,they always can get a man. But yet you rarely see a fat guy or unnattractive guy with a woman? Is it becuase men only men think about only "one thing" or are women just too picky
2006-06-23 19:28:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
It's both. And men can be picky too. Ask any woman who has children and is in the market. She will tell you that men are a lot less interested in women who already have kids. Men at first only
want one thing but they won't stick around if that is all there is for them in the relationship. They eventually desire companionship as well and not just a pair of open legs.
I have seen unattractive men with women. When I was 19 I went out with a guy that was on the chubby side and all my friends were like "ugh" but I liked him because he was nice to me. Somebody who is just hideous like 300lbs+, they might have problems because it means they aren't into health but other than that if you have a good personality, a job, and something to offer,
you can find somebody out there.
2006-06-23 19:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really think that? I've always seen it as the opposite, that a man was "allowed" to be overweight or not the ideal man without any problems, but a woman on the other hand has a harder time with it. It's not to say that all men are looking for the model type, because we all know that is not true, but overall it seems women have a tougher time when they don't fit the mold. Men are cute with love handles... women are fat with them, plain and simple.
Maybe you just tend to go to places where only attractive men go? I can't explain the phenomenon you see occurring.
2006-06-23 19:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by MELISSA B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work in a casino and see all kinds of couples. It can be fat man skinny woman or vise versa. I think men actually have the advantage, because there are more women than men so that men can pick and choose. From what I have seen in my time that is why most men try to have affairs now days because they know they have the advantage and at least one woman will want to accept the apology for lack of prospects after the fact.
2006-06-23 19:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by Tonya M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ... No ... and Yes
Yes women are too picky .... but there is a biological imperative to it. they are designed to find a mate with the most survival traits and ability to protect them and their young.
No women are not "too" picky ... they have the same right to have an attractive mate as a man does. However, what a woman finds attractive is often very different from a man's point of view.
Yes ... men think about only one thing ... it is because of the survival drive ... they are genetically driven to spread their genes as widely throughout the gene pool as possible ...
2006-06-23 19:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by middleagecrazy6850 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it works about the same, both ways. I've never seen guys fall all over themselves over a genuinely unattractive women and vice versa. Men and women try to get the "best" partner they can given their circumstances.
2006-06-23 23:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are to picky. And cars are a lot more fun.
2006-06-23 19:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my expereince i have noticed that women are definitely PICKY!
besides, looks the POCKET of the male also matters a lot !
2006-06-23 19:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by blessed_one_male 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's both, at the same time.....unfortunately
2006-06-23 19:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we are guilty, we think about only that thing...
2006-06-23 19:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by lelefisso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either way it means the same
2006-06-23 19:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by ub4mebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋