2006-06-23 19:25:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not sure if a history exists behind the story, but I can only say to stay strong and keep your emotions in control. Give it time. Hopefully, you have the full support of your spouse and with that the two of you should be able to "break the ice" eventually.
I know my in-laws were not to keen on me, when my wife and I first got together. It took two holidays and a couple of weekend trips before I felt comfortable and accepted.
Also remember that they may naturally be more subdued individuals. You may have to adjust slightly to the type of family there are. In my family there is an air of energy, constant noise and jokes constantly flying around. My wife's family is more laid back, quiet and "proper" (for lack of a better word). Anyway, be open the the idea that they may be that way naturally.
Best of wishes to you.
2006-06-23 19:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph L 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Sweets,
Never judge anybody from how much they speak to you.You need to talk to them..if you feel they dont talk to u much..
Try to make them feel comfortable when u all are around together.Start with --- How is ur day going? Would you like to have some tea/coffee/juice? Ask something about their marriage funny stuff?
Make them feel that you all can have fun.
Also if you are positive about your relationship with ur in laws ..auotmatically they will no option but to be nice to you and will like you eventually.
All the best!
2006-06-24 02:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by wildkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try questioning them about things your husband says they are in to and enjoy doing. Maybe they are not too much of a conversationalists. Call mom in law and ask her if she's up for brunch and see what topics you can come up with if she declines your offer without a good reason then I guess you shoud have looked deep before you leaped and found that out ahead of time then it wouldn't bother you as much now.
2006-06-24 02:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Niinnaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they just need to get to know you better.
You might need to spark up the conversation, by asking things about them, and what they like.... And perhaps they'll follow suit and ask things about you.
2006-06-24 02:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married? sometimes it takes awhile to be excepted into a new family. Sometimes it will never happen and its their loss not yours
2006-06-24 02:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try to talk to them and "break the ice".
2006-06-24 02:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it duos not mater what thy think as long as your hube loves you
2006-06-24 02:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by chrissy a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋