when me and my b/f have sex, i have way to much lubrication, its messy... REALLY MESSY!!! how much is to much? how do i "slow it down" is there a way? and how should it look???? i need help!!!!
2006-06-23 18:50:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
i dont like it being all gross down there, it desensitizes it for me a little bit...
2006-06-23 18:55:19 · update #1
It sounds like you're doing fine. You're just a more excitable person.
Enjoy it. Put a towel or folded sheet under you and stop worrying so much.
It sounds perfectly normal.
2006-06-23 18:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by babyitsyou31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but there is no way of "slowing it down", that's your body's natural lube system at work. Like another reply said, be thankful you aren't dry....that would hurt you and him. Is it a problem for you or your boyfriend? It shouldn't be...it's just part of nature. There is no limit on how much there is, and as you grow older it will "slow down" thats why there are lubes for sale. It should look clear and be very slippery. Feel free to send me a message if you have anymore questions.
2006-06-23 18:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can be too lubricated...the more the better! Yeah, it's messy, but that's normal...unless your boyfriend is having some issue with it, be happy! I don't imagine that he would anyway...
2006-06-23 18:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by shescrafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry it is natural and it will be minimize through age.But U can dry it by soft and the like at the time of sex I think it is too difficult b/c you are in sexual sense.
2006-06-23 18:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never have to much i don't think. it feels better that way. if he is a big guy it does not hurt as much if he is small then ya you may have a problem you don't feel it as much. I think weter is better. it is usually white looking.
2006-06-23 18:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by Nadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are questions you need to speak to your Doctor for. You would get a much truthful answer.
2006-06-23 18:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by Stars-Moon-Sun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He Dont Get You Wet??? Lose Him Get Wit Me
2006-06-23 20:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're concerned with the mess than get a towel.
2006-06-23 18:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you need is about three drops...i read the back...you should do that...its helpful and will help you realize wats to much and i say you would know its to little cause it wouldnt slide in properly
2006-06-23 18:54:36 · answer #9 · answered by flawless_n_enviied 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You THINK you need help, but you don't! You're doing fine. Ideally, it is SUPPOSED to be messy.
Sounds like you are in love with him.
2006-06-23 18:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋