ejaculating to soon!!!?

Question

k i want a solution that doesnt involve him pulling out and squeezing his head. its a serious problem. its been so fast at times its made me cry.

ok, were 17, no meds...im on birth control, were not useing condoms.... he has masturbated before but it doesnt help... :(

Answer 1

Tell him to think about his mother.

Answer 2

Ok simple first my dear he has to start to do this before you start intercors.. like 45mint prior... next he can get a ******** this will also help.. next.. get that condom on it squeeze it.. the reason for it is this..

he is so sensitive on the top of the head that when it touches or skin the tingling is exploding.. you can say.. so by usiing the condom for a few months it will train it..

have him ejaculat, the put on the condom.. then let him ejaculat in it.. then take off the condom and and have him masterbat himself..

if he is having this much problem the needs to be masterbating at least 3 to 5 times a day so his body starts getting control..

i had to go though this with my husband of 23yrs.. but in the end the sex doctor.. explaind all of this.. well it works..

Answer 3

First, have him wear a condom to reduce sensitivity a bit.

Second, escalate slowly through the foreplay. If you can get him to build and lose several erections before you actually start intercourse, he'll have much more stamina.

Third, change positions often. This will allow him to calm down a little before starting up again. Should get you an extra 15 minutes or so. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

Let the foreplay be slowww and steadyyyy, do not let him speed up, keep it really slow.

you must take the lead, which means you control the rate of the sxual movements.

Use other methods like oral, hands and anything which helps you control the rate of movement.

use condoms which would help you desensitise the organ.

Hands are the best tool as both of you can keep each other happy at the same time there is more control over the orgasm

Answer 5

pull down on his scrotum before he cums. This will prevent ejaculation. Aldso using a condom will help and there are many desensitising agents on the market. Try one and see if it works. Also varying the rythms during sex will help. He also needs to look up some info on tantric and meditative sex.

Answer 6

the answer is almost totally ignored and almost totally caused by women. what a guy needs for stamina is lotsa nasty sex not held back by his lady and plenty of romance so it's not all about getting off. don't refrain from giving in to your guy. you're not going all the way unless you're giving him enough to get off several times. after the first time, don't just get up and call it quits. stay in bed, be romantic and show him you really care about more than his size or wallet. do this and you'll get what you really want. stamina takes practice. more than a couple times in one love session will get him primed to be your red hot rocket ride to whatever gets you off.

Answer 7

There is a device that can help with this,it's called a "c" ring.You can get them at adult toy stores or order them on-line from an adult on-line toy site like Adam&Eve.com. Hope this helps and good luck.

Answer 8

He needs to jerk off before he goes out with you so that the 2nd time he's a bit slower.

Answer 9

consult a physician. there are meds that can help. or just do it more often to reduce sensitivity. wear multiple condoms to reduce sensitivity

Answer 10

Levitra or Viagra can slow it down - or at least keep it hard so you can enjoy it.